How can a marriage be saved if one is a conpulsive spender and the two of them have nothing in common?

KHill: How can a marriage be saved if one is a conpulsive spender and the two of them have nothing in common?
Some women and men will pretend to be what you want to get you. Some will promise to change or go along with a compromise. Later after marriage, the do whatever the hell they want, no matter how destructive it is to the marriage. Is there hope for a marriage like this?

Answers and Views:

Answer by HelenS
Nope not a lot.

Answer by JENNIFER M
nope,
Marriage only works when BOTH parties are willing to make it work. They dont work without effort or compromise.

They just dont.

Answer by rough_poetry
If the two people are not interested in saving the eraltionship then you have no relationship. What does he want?

Answer by SIR
Been there. No, there isn’t any hope. Run, run run!

Answer by me
The couple needs to have a serious talk about the unhealthy habits and the outcome of the over spending. Stay calm.

Answer by Jackie
If you have NOTHING in common and there is an addiction going on?

Obviously the addiction is an escape from the marriage so to answer your question HELL NO!!!

Answer by Hubba Hubba
no.

Answer by Yeah
please have a talk with your spouse and find out why they are acting in such a way! If they are unwilling to save this marriage then run for the hills hun. It takes 2 to tango and your spouse is not “tangoing” at the moment!