Hi, Would a Sincere Girlfriend Care If I Don’t Want to “make Love” later on after marriage?

carrington: Hi, Would a Sincere Girlfriend Care If I Don’t Want to “make Love” later on after marriage?
Ha, make jokes if you want If this seems too unnormal, especially for a male.
I feel no real need to be sexual period, I definately will be and have been romantic with my girlfriend and later-wife, But do you think a sincere girl will still be alright overall about us not having sex.
But Of course, still loving each other and being romantic physically in general? : ) Thanks

Answers and Views:

Answer by QuestionWyrm
I’m sure you can find a girl who shares your views on sex, however there is a good chance you will change your mind by then.

Answer by Becca
I don’t see why not…

If there are guys in the world that think like you, thrust me there are a lot more girls that think that way!!! Just gotta find the right one!!!

Answer by Whos your mama?
Ever think about trying to meet someone thats in the same boat as you?? Probably your best bet. And there are people like you.

Good luck!

Answer by Caitlinxxx
yes
i think it shows how you want it to be special
and your maturity

Answer by dilitosmom
How much later? Like when your 60. I would need to feel that intimacy with my husband. But hey that is just me.

Answer by justbeingher
You better ask her. If so, great. If not, major misery on down the line.

Answer by mlogie1979
what the….what the….whaaat?
i dont know..i can see a wife being dissapointed with that….

Answer by Angel grl
Uh no she will divorce your sorry butt like I did with mine when he quit wanting to do anything with me after we got married LOL

Answer by ericwoo1970
I thought gays couldn’t get married…

Answer by bdgirl
That’s asking a lot. I think maybe you need some medicine to help you be more sexual. Some people think they aren’t but it can be the relationship they are in, their job, or some other thing that makes them feel this way. You would need to discuss with her and tell her how you really feel. If she’s the same you might be a great match, if not you might need to find alternatives to keep eachother happy. Remember it’s about both of you, not just what one person wants.

Answer by funnyzaza1993
Um…i don’t really understand why AFTER marraige you wouldn’t want to have sex, but i guess personally i would be pissed. I mean if your gf one day wants to have kids then she can’t do that unless you have sex. Talk it over with her…she might understand…u may change your mind.

Answer by Berry Picker
sex is a big part of a relationship. i don’t think any girl is going to settle for a sexless marriage. you better wait till your 50 to marry, then you can use the excuss that you can’t get it out.

Answer by Pablo
I’m sure there are women who don’t care about sex, so if your girlfriend was in that category then you might be ok, but to be honest, why would anyone want ot miss out on all that? I for one could not live without and thank God I can’t complain about not getting it either.

Answer by BabeHeart
There are women out there that don’t care about sex and would be happy to meet a guy like you. Just make sure women you date know up front that sex isn’t on the menu. Be honest about it.

Good luck.

Answer by JuliusCaesar
If she’s a woman who wants sex then sexually you aren’t a match, and that can lead to serious problems down the road. I suggest you make sure you get a woman who shares your views and wants in a relationship.

Answer by dj idk
girls have needs you know. if she doesn’t have any she will sooner or later come to me!

Answer by Lin S.
Probaly not at first… but usually after kids and after you have been married for a while… she probably wouldn’t want much sex anyway. I wouldn’t go that route at first though. You never know though… sincerity can alter things!

Answer by gxuitar
If she really loved you then it wouldnt matter. Sex is just a great bounus of the love and marrage part but what is really important is the bond you guys share together.

Answer by heatherlemar
That’s an incredably evil thing to do to someone. Loving each other and being “romantically physical” is not the same thing as making love. It’s all about a connection with your spouse. If you deprive that person of sex that person will find it with someone else.

Answer by coolgurl261286
I think she’s ok either way.
Even if she dumps you for this, it doesnt mean she is insincere. She has her needs.

Answer by RoadRunner
FIND OUT IF SHE FEELS THE SAME WAY YOU DO. iF YOU ENJOYS THE SEX AND IS NOT WILLING TO STOP BEING PHYSICAL THEN SHE PROBABLY NOT THE WOMAN TO MAKE YOUR WIFE. IT’S NOT COMPLETELY ABNORMAL TO NOT BE SEXUALLY INTERESTED BUT KEEP IN MIND THERE SHOULD NO SURPRISES IN ANY RELATIONSHIP AFTER MARRIAGE. COMMUNICATE EVERYTHING TO YOU FUTURE WIFE ABOUT YOUR WISHES AND PREFERENCES AND ALL THAT STUFF. DO PRE-MARITAL THERAPY TOO, AND NOT WITH A RELIGIOUS PERSON, SOMEONE OBJECTIVE.

Answer by jessi
no I dont think she would be ok with that!!