Friendship…..?

Anonymous: Friendship…..?
Do you agree with me that for a true, lasting friendship, the basic needs would be mutual same level of love and appreciation and sharing the same “definition” for friendship?

I tried to know why so many friendships in one’s life are not that successful, I think the above gives the answer. Let’s all share our points of view, so we can approach the truth.

And btw, my last q got deleted by y/a as it violated the guidelines, and I’m thankful for all those who had answered especially Noha, Eman and Hope.

Answers and Views:

Answer by Salah
The first part of the question is very true
The second part, you will never know why so many friendships are not that successful, I am still wondering myself.
The third part, I did not see your previous question.

Answer by cleopatra Algerian Queen&Bride
hi
u’re asking about the 2nd most important theme of me
(1st is love)
for me friendship is so sacred i give it a great importance cuz i love my friends as family a part of me so that i care a lot about maintaining my friendship and fight for it never let it go
and i give my friend as i give my self sometimes i give more but it’s OK that’s my friend
yes exactly the basic for a true long lasting friendship should be the mutuality of feelings to one an other same feelings i feel toward my friend she /he feels to me reciprocal appreciation ,respect and love they care about u as u do they stand with as u do too and Im ready to do anything for em to make em happy and to help em this means a real friendship

my mom always blame me she said Om naive and Im always the giver and that my friendship goes beyond its limits coz i consider my friends as part of me as family is it wrong !!

i give my friends a very important place in my life no fun without em i cant be happy without telling em i cant let em alone while they are in troubles even if i involve myself in that trouble i call em even if they dont ask about me

i always do the first step with some sacrifies to keep that friendship strong and everlasting the two friends should understad each other when one of em stops the 2nd should move when 1st forgets teh 2nd should remind him when the 2nd gets angry the 1st should exuse him …and………………..this the perfect rule to save ur friendship .

Answer by Eman G (Happy New Year)
Agree with u Ashraf in the first part of ur q.
As for why friendships r not that successful…mmmm may be when life changes our characters also change and once i said here that dad advised me to leave some space of mystery between me and my friends so we’ll always need each others.

Thank u dear brother i was so happy that u r back here and doesn’t matter that ur q got deleted, u know we got used to it 😀

Answer by Hala
Nice to see you back.
I agree with the first part, but i would add in trust.
Friendships change for many reasons, just like people & thats the main reason i guess that they dont always last.

Theres a ‘hitman’ around & lots of people are having the thumbs down, getting reported & being deleted, so good luck.

Answer by Reikominder
😀 days change anyone , trust me ,

But , the rule that no one here in Egypt can understand is :
Ur friend can’t be same as you, bcoz many people when they disagree with their friends in something , they start to leave him , and also accept ur friend as he is , u can advice him , its good to advice him , but dont leave him if he doesn’t take ur advice ,

Friendship must be (give and take) , Even if u r so kind person , and u r a giver all the time , one day u will find urself not able to give like always , and they will feel different towards u ,

also days change people, I mean when ur friend travel and work outside , or he got married , or he have a lot of work so he cant talk or go out with u , for example , when i was in school , we were 4 best friends , always go out together , laugh, talk , share happy and sad moments , but after school , each one went to different college , so we start to make new friends there , and also we go out but not like b4 , then each one get a job , and one of them married , and the other traveled , I still with one of them , he is busy all the time, but we go out once a week , and i still talk once a month to the other 2 friends ,

But I just want to tell u , that maybe ur friend is like u , and he give love and care , but life take us all from our friends and family ,

Life is hard this days , and we must make a balance between friends & work,

Wish u a good luck always , I always like ur answers , u seem good man, and i hope we can be friends in the near future ,

Take care , and sorry for my raghy 🙂

Answer by DR/Adham(changesinthe way)
elslam 3likom
frankly,i dont agree with u in this viewpoint
for lasting friendship the friends shouldn’t look what they gain or what they need they always give and without waiting for a return
if the two sides give from heart for sure the two sides will take from eachother not becuz they take but cuz they give
🙂

Answer by Rokaya
yes, it’s very important for all kinds of relationships to have mutual aproach to definition of the relationship you’re in.
also in my experience i see that a real friend is one that you might not see for few months/yrs and when u meet nothing between you changes.

Answer by RAMSIS II
When it comes to friendship it is difficult to use words and definations

when it comes to love it is imposiple