Do you think kissing is not an intamate thing between husband and wife?

pisceschick: Do you think kissing is not an intamate thing between husband and wife?
My husband had a fling with a nother woman, he never had sex with her (it didn’t get that far) but he did kiss her. He says that kissing isn’t that inportant in a marriage its the emotional part of knowing the person and being with them. I think kissing is intamate and should only be with the husband. He says men just think that way. So men I want to know from a mans point of view?

Answers and Views:

Answer by me…
yes kissing is very important in a marriage! and if he does not think so then there there is something funny about him!! but he sure kissed his girl friend!!

Answer by Gregory
He is obviously playing you.
Kissing is a love struck move that should only be made on someone that you love or care for. You are MARRIED to him, he should only be kissing you. I suggest straightening him up, otherwise you will have to leave him.

Answer by tito o
NO NO NO lol Iv been around married people alot!
They kiss and makeout all the time!
idk if its just them but they do.

Answer by Goldielocks
I don’t mean to take your space. I’m not a man. Kissing is more intimate than the sex.
Maybe you should have an intimate kiss with a man, see how he likes it.

I wish you could find a man to respect you. You deserve it. Another thing, You wash his clothes and make him supper and do all the extras’s for him because you love him and he is your husband. Make him fend for hisself.
That will wake him up.

Answer by gotacha2000
wow what plant is he from, when you kiss someone there is either a spark or some kind of emotions about it, if you have that friendly kiss give to to a friend to say goodbye that is different. When a kiss is long and deep there is something there, our bodies react to it, unless he is a cold hearted person most men will feel something when they kiss someone, might not be the right feelings but we do have feelings for someone, its that attraction to someone else that makes us feel something, either if we love that person or havin a fling, so kissing someone is not a heartless kiss, he is just saying that because they didnt have sex, believe me if they did the kiss would of meant more!!!

Answer by WΘMBAT is Sparky
Oh, that’s complete B.S. and he knows it…..

He’s in denial. He’s trying to minimize and deny the fact that what he did was wrong. Maybe he’s even clueless enough to believe it himself…..

Answer by Matt Demon
kissing is an intimate thing between husband and wife..its wrong to kiss other women when ur married

Answer by SexyChocolateWife
He is the only man who thinks that way. My husband and I always have passionate kisses. He is trying to avoid being told he was wrong kissing another woman.Are u sur that is all that happened?

Answer by Paul&Fran
In my opinion here it isn’t whether he had sex, kissed, fondled it’s the situation that is considered wrong. It goes along the same lines is But it didn’t mean anything. Ask him this if he hadn’t gotten busted would he have told you that he just kissed her? Anything in this situation that you wont share with your spouse is considered cheating.

Answer by The Cutting Edge
Your husband’s view is defensive so he will say anything to cover his a**. I concur with you and mainly it has to do with where he kisses her and for how long. I quick kiss on the cheek like a friend or long no see-um relative or class mate is totally different. A long passionate kiss spells HELLOOO… and we don’t know the truthfully circumstances or more. Intimate it is if it anything close to that or more. I think your husband would object if the shoes were on the other foot, and you had long kisses with close hugs while their tongues engaged. I made my point and you see the male has to keep his double standard in the trashcan where it belongs……..

Answer by Complicated
Hasn’t he seen Pretty Woman, lol? But yeah, there’s a reason that cliche exists. Kissing is extremely intimate, IMO. A long, slow kiss is one of the best pleasures out there, and one of the most intimate acts in my book.

Since I’m not a man, I asked my husband and he said “well, what else is he going to say?”

Answer by ret
It can and cant be. There are times where it is, there are times when its just a kiss.

Honestly your situation can be one of two things. They didnt have sex because for some reason they couldnt, or he got that far and thought “what the bleep am i doing” and stopped.

I personally think that anything more than a peck on the cheek is too much of a kiss to give someone other than your spouse.

I think you need to find out why it stopped at the kiss and didnt go further. But i do not agree with your husband, it sounds like he is tryign to downplay it.