mountain: Do people use the phrase “true love” whenever they fall in love?
So basically all the people in a serious relationship think they’ve found the true love and then when they break up it’s not “true love” anymore?
is there such thing as “true love” or what…?
Answers and Views:
Answer by hellogoodbye
true love does exist but the difference is does he or she mean it when they say it
Answer by Sohrab Danandeh
true love existence but its hard to find…. mostly ppl think that it is true love by finding the person that they like or they have been alot with them… like when u have something for a long time even bad memorys and stupid things are good memory to you so u just basically love them (better i say like them alot) bcoz of the time u have passed with them… even ppl who hate each other sometimes miss each other… but what is true love?!
it is mostly like some thing that normal ppl call it a craziness or maybe phsyco ppl…. it is mostly not like sex or other things…. u can check these kind of true love things in persian old story things…. (sry but idk about english things but persian things they describe really good) the name of the story is : mejnoon and layly or Farhad and Sheereen….
these kind of loves are true love…but true loves in my opinion is destroying urself so better to have a fake true love than destroying urself
Answer by PHNTM
it’s not “is there love or true love” … it’s “is there love or not”…
True generosity and love share the same concept of giving without expecting anything to happen as result; you just give because you want to, because you choose to, because… you ignore yourself… to care about something greater. in this case the relationship… (not you, not them).. because there’s the kind where the two seem to be in their own world apart form everyone else, the kind where the two seem to always just show off to everyone else, the kind where one person assumes most of the power over the other, and the kind where the two really care about and work towards the relationship (not each other or themselves) with respect to everyone else… it’d be really nice to see more of the last type… it takes 2 people in any relationship and it’s not the “this is your part, this is my part; I’ll do mine, you do yours,” that our culture has promoted but “we’re in it together, if you don’t put in effort for this relationship, I will because i care about our relationship even if you don’t value it at the moment.”
love isn’t about going through the emotions… it’s about keeping the person close to your heart and caring about what’s best for the relationship, as well as them, regardless of the emotions… but, hey, we’re all human and no one is perfect, so we make choices that hurt others and others will make choices that hurt us… either way… love is about understanding that and loving others regardless of whatever happened, is happening, and will happen… love is about making the painful decision to be willing to sacrifice anything in order to be able to give love genuinely… sure it helps when both people show to each other that they feel bad about the hurtful stuff, but that’s not something you should expect of the other person….
at the end of the day… do you really love them? because if you do then you won’t trouble yourself with what they do… just do your best to show that you love and care and trust them.. you should give your love expecting nothing to happen at all because of it. true love is choice that is made with a commitment… it is completely selfless and is unconditionally unconditional in any way…
if someone truly loves another, then they will continue to do so even if the other has left them. so if both people said that they love each other, then they wouldn’t have broken up because breaking up is self-centered and love isn’t.
All of this is for you to just get an idea of what love really is… would defeat the purpose if you make expectations of her to do certain things and use this to judge her for it… because that’s having expectations for your benefit.. that’s not love
“Trust, responsibility, taking the weight for your choices and feelings, and spending the rest of your life living up to them. And above all, not hurting the object of your love. … Multiply it by infinity, and take it to the depth of forever, and you will still have barely a glimpse of what I’m talking about.” -William Parrish (Meet Joe Black)
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