Do guys ever WANT to “make love”?

human1: Do guys ever WANT to “make love”?
My boyfriend mocked me for wanting to “make love” one night as opposed to just have sex. He laughed out loud and rolled his eyes. At least half the time I am totally down with just sex for the sake of sex! But I was just feeling stressed that week and looking for some extra closeness, and his reaction really stung me. But it could also be that I expect too much or expect him to see it as I do when, as a man, he just doesn’t. I definitely don’t want to be on his case for something if it’s not personal and/or not his fault!!!

So I’m just looking for some different perspectives on this. Are there any guys out there who actually crave “making love” as opposed to just “having sex”? Or should I just chill and realize that men and women are different this way?
We are both single, no children, and in our mid-30s. We’ve been together 11 months. He does unusually thoughtful things for me and spends most of his free time with me so I don’t doubt his interest/love, but he says himself that he is an “unemotional” guy. He gets angry when I cry in front of him and often thinks I am being dramatic. I guess I sometimes wonder how much of that is a guy thing and how much of it is this particular guy…

Thanks for your answers, you guys, I appreciate them all!

Answers and Views:

Answer by Northwestern Grad
nope just sex

Answer by L2BB
my husband never asks to make love but if I request it he is very caring and does it for me. He understands and that is a great quality to have in a man. I hope your boyfriend can mature enough to realize that if you do the dirty things he wants done, the least he could do is make love to you here and there.. it’s give and take….

Answer by Ladies Man
I wanna make some sweet love to u, baby girl.

Answer by Exitwound
Sure.

Answer by Richard
Nah I get all soppy for a bit of loving sometimes.

Answer by Laura Graham
How long have u guys been 2get her.
How old r u guys, some guys are embarrassed by the concept of making love but it shouldn’t be something that you have to ask for it should be something that happens naturally. Most guys never grow up however teenage boys & guys in their early 20’s are usually looking for sex, however in a meaningful relationship you should be making love as well as having sex.
Don’t feel bad, if you are having a bad time you want to be supported and he should support you

Answer by Opionated Trucker
When me and my soon to be ex-wife were together I wanted to make love, but she always just wanted to f*** all the time. All men are different, most of the time I wanted to make love others I just wanted to f*** her like a porn star, that’s the thing she wanted any way. I was let down most of the time, I didn’t get what I wanted, so I didn’t want to be with her in that sense all the time, with her I just wanted to sleep, after all it was the same old thing every time. If he is a young man then all he wants is to f*** you like a porn star, maybe one day you will find a man that wants to make love to you like you want and deserve.