Do any of you women out there generally feel this way?

Lovely Firestrike: Do any of you women out there generally feel this way?
I’m supposed to be strong and keep it together because I’m older and because I have my priorities in order. I’m not supposed to worry about weight because I’m in my 20’s, I have a job, a husband, and classes to attend to. I’m supposed to be past that crappy-teen like insecurity.
But every now and again I can’t help but feel like “It’s unfair”.
All I see and hear is “thin, thin, thin”. And while I am considered a healthy weight and actually considered thin by people who aren’t brainwashed like me, I still don’t feel thin enough. I was speaking to one of my male companions about attractive qualities in people and I called him out on the thing I hear so much “I like small breasts”. Every guy I’ve ever dated and even my husband has said that. I start to wonder why curves aren’t attractive, I start to think back to all the people who would call me fat because I wear a size 2/3, I start to wonder if diet and fitness aren’t enough. I start to fade away.

Does anyone else feel like this size 0 and A cup obsession is breaking your spirit? Is anyone right there with me?
We all come in all shapes and sizes, and we rarely feel good enough

No answers like “omg, you’re perfect” because I’m not fishing for compliments. Just answer if you want to open up and discuss this, if you’ve felt like this before. I want to hear your thoughts about this.
Alabamian_girl: I do have a slender waist and 36 C’s. But I’ve never met a grown man that likes my breast size. Like I said, I married a man that prefers 34 A to 34 B which makes me feel like I will never measure up. You are lucky people have treated you well, I was not blessed with such passings. Many women call me fat when they don’t even know me, men tell me I’m too curvy. I’m 5’5 115 pounds, I’ll never understand why so many people have said such awful things about me. I’m glad you are confident in yourself. I suppose I’ll never be.

Answers and Views:

Answer by נєηηα
no, it doesnt bother me
I dont care! as long as Im happy

Answer by Jo
the media will only affect your self esteem if you let it

Answer by gtdoll
yes, i definitely feel ya. i am but i am in my teenage years so i probably dont know…but my mom, cousin, ant, everyone feels this way. It is normal. Even thou you said no compliments i am going to give u one, u ARE perfect. I wear a 0/1 in pants and i am super curvy (for my age) and i like them. I have also noticed how NONE of the fat in my body was wasted in the boob catergory. But you only live one life so dont worry about trying to “fix” things that aren’t broken.
We ALL feel the same way. Even drop dead gorgeous supermodels :^)

I LOVE how i look :^)

u should too :3

Answer by Abbi
i’ve gone through this stage but i wanted to be bigger. i’m tall and thin so i look lanky and different compared to all of my friends.
but then i stop and think, this is how i was made, and i have to accept it.
i realise i have a high motabalism so i will never have the same figure my mates have, i’ve accepted it now.
i also realise, and i think it’s the same for you, most people base their image and obsession around how the opposite sex will feel about them. but i KNOW that not all boys are going to feel attracted to the way you look. they like different shapes and sizes. (i’m not singling out personality here just noting on physical attraction for boys).
i’m 16 now and only now have i thought i just don’t care. if a person doesn’t like me for who i am, it’s their problem.
you should work more on what you do have not what you don’t have.
i you feel it’s a real problem in your head maybe visit a doctor or counsellor for advice. talking about your problems is aways best(:

Answer by alabamian_girl
ive never thought a size 0 and A cup were considered attractive.. ive always admired curves like w/ shakira and beyonce and such.. i don’t see why a guy would want his GF to be stick skinny with small boobs, which reminds me of a child. women were meant to have curves and studies show that the majority of men admire women with a smaller waist and wider hips and a cup size of C…. im a size 8 and a 34D and i have never been told that i was too big.