I catched my husband with another girl, he said he is regreted but he left the house and rented and appt.?

altimaja: I catched my husband with another girl, he said he is regreted but he left the house and rented and appt.?
he says he loves me but he left in thanksgiving, he says he will come back but he leased the appt, for a year, what should I do? our daughter is very attached to him and her doctor says she has symptoms of depression. I love my husband a lot regarless what he did, I’d forgive him for everything but his says he doesn’t know what he wants. He wants to meet different women but that am the only person that treat him with love, respect, because am different from all other girls. He also says am the woman that every man would like to have because am beautiful, gorgeous, beautiful body, beautiful smile, ect. what should I do for the best of our daughter and for the deep love that I still love for him?

Answers and Views:

Answer by libby
He sounds very confused. It also sounds as if he needs a lot of space right now to figure things out…which makes things difficult for you. Sorry about that. I know it would be hard, but can you try to mentally and emotionally put him in another compartment in your mind for awhile? Until he grows up? And, in the meantime, it sounds like you’re doing a great job with your daughter…keep being a consistent mom for her. You can’t do anything about your husband right now, but you can do a lot of good for your daughter. And, keep on taking good care of yourself. You sound like a real winner…and remember, you can handle anything life throws at you. Be strong and stay consistent with yourself and with your little girl.

Answer by [email protected]
If he says all that about you then why has he cheated and moved out. He’s using you as soon as things don’t go right for him out there who do you think he’s gonna come running back to?

Answer by hethatdwells
Pray about it talk to Jesus just like you are talking to us he will hear and he cares!

Answer by msangie82
The three of you need to sit down and talk about the best way to comfort your daughter. He needs to spend more time with her and make sure that she understands that what you two have going has nothing to do with her. Children often times blame themselves for their parents seperation. HE needs to tell her its not her fault he left. As far as a relationship between the two of you do you think you can really be back with him after such an ultimate betrayal? Not even the cheating but too leave as well? HE is being very selfish right now by telling you he loves you but he just wants to screw other women. He may be going through a midlife crisis or something but that is not your problem its his. It sounds to me like hes stringing you along. He clearly doesnt want to be with you because he left. He just doesnt want you to be with anyone else. Move on with your life. Everybody loves somebody but that is not enough to make a relationship work. If he says all those things about you being gorgeous somebody else will feel that way as well.That will actually treat you with love and respect. Because love and respect in a relationship is not cheating and abandoning. You seem like a caring and sensitve person find someone who will appreciate you and let your husband work out his issues on his own time not yours. Tonight before you go to bed tell your daughter that you love her. And then tell yourself.