am i a bully ????????????????????

rytex: am i a bully ????????????????????
ok some of my friends called me a bully and i want to see if this is true (i know i am aggressive but to see if im a bully) ok. I am 14 and i year(grade) 10 at school, i admit that my parents have spoiled me (not to a great extent) but i have never been ungrateful , i admit though that i can get jealous. i am fairly bright , not smart but slightly above average in most subjects (except english and languages which i dropped) though i play the piano grade 5, in my class 1 of my friends is grade 8 piano, hates music and everyone wants him playing the piano and he hates it, do i have the right to feel jealous. I am not a very popular student, i go round with my group of friends (about 13 of us) but i am well respected and well known for some reason, i don’t misbehave in class and i don’t talk much. i have a very bad temper which most people know, eg. if someone insults me as a joke, ill either keep insulting that person or hurt them. I have looked up about bullies , and if i am one, i think i would be a physiological bully and physical, as at one time i was insulting my friends hobby so much(i love a good argument) he was close to tears , so i stopped, and other times this person annoyed me ( he threw my sunglasses on the floor from my face) so i punched him in the stomach and pinned his nech against the wall ( i walked off before i lashed out on him) but the people i supposedly bully are my friends who seem to forgive me the next day anyway and we joke about my temper and they sometimes act as my body guards (they are quite weak) and if someone who i know bumos into me , they will push them , then that person will chase my friends asking for my help(some bodyguard) but this rarely happens, so do you think im a bully,(physical/phycho/both) if so please give some advice to help me stop being so bad tempered

Answers and Views:

Answer by Morgan
Have sex

Answer by Homicidal Maniac
someone has anger problems…..

Answer by Evie
no, if anything at all you would be physiological for friends and physical for others.

Answer by Jenny
yes

Answer by Starkat
umm yea, if someone took my sunglasses off my face and threw them on the floor i dont think i would punch him and pin him against the wall………….. I mean thats a bit much..

Answer by Andrew
Your not a bully. You have anger issues. You may want to have therapy or something. Because having a bad quick temper can get you in tons of trouble.

Answer by Grey Olltwit
From what you have described it doesn’t sound like you are a bully at all. Bullies are generally cowards who do not care about whether they hurt another person. You clearly are concerned about your behaviour which means you do care. I think you have shown a lot of guts to ask this question and you realise that maybe you have a quick temper problem. Try the old fashioned counting to 10 in your head before reacting to a situation that makes you feel angry. If you are really concerned talk to your parents, teacher or doctor about some anger management therapy.

Answer by zack
i was like you before you just have a problem with your brain that makes it very easy to trigger the anger glan you can fix that like i did this might sound weird but its not that weird theirs this place were they have you sit in a chair and they connect cords to your head and they make it not so simple for people to trigger the anger glan thats how i fixed my problem bye the way people its easy to say that you us the count to 10 thing and stuff like that but all of that is bull crap anger can sometimes be un controllable