My mum has had breast cancer and both her breasts off…How can i make her feel better?

Alex…: My mum has had breast cancer and both her breasts off…How can i make her feel better?
My mum has just had both her breasts off from cancer, shes feeling really self concious and i really want to make her good about herself, without spending alot of money. If your in the same situation then you’ll know wat i mean.

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Answer by edmister ( won the bet)
be nice to her al the time

Answer by Hey girl heyyyy
Take her shopping & toa movie… anything that would get her mind off things.

Answer by Jazzie
Spend every mintue with her. Make her laugh.

Answer by redrockcastle
You don’t have to spend any money. Just act normal around her. She’ll want the normalcy of every day life.

Answer by Tim S
giver her gifts and try to distract her from it. Also try to confront her.

Answer by Bobby D
that is messed up but just make her feel better as if there was nothin wrong wit her

Answer by marie s
Tell her that you love her and she is the most courageous person you know. “Mum, you are my hero!” Support her, help her and be good to her…You will never regret it. You are going to both cry, but it’s worth it.

Answer by twilight luvra
I feel sorry for u m8 !
Listen maybe take her to a theme park 0r a park maybe out to dinner show her that he life isnt over yet and to enjoy the time she still has left !
plz vote me best answer xoxo jasmine
Hope everything goes okay !
And i will dontate to breast cancer xoxo

Answer by tiny
complement her about everything she does thank her for everything
write her a letter expressing all ur feelings and write how much u love her

Answer by aglael l
tell her to not be ashamed that many other womens are also suffering and going thru all this, tell her that she is beauthiful because her heart is worth more that anything and breasts are nothing important was matters is that she is alive enjoying life with you!

Answer by Vanessa P
You can go to the dollar store or wal- mart and pick up a nice make up kit set. Also, you could get some hair dye and try some trends on her. Do her nails, curl her hair, and put some make up on her. As a woman, looking good can really boost spirits. if she likes to bake, find some cool new recipes and make cooking projects with her. These are a few things that require creativity and fun. Good Luck.

Answer by L~e~x~i
Make her something..nothing makes parents feel better than something made from their own beloved son/daughter. Buy some construction paper and stickers and decorate it. Hoped this Helped!
p.s. tell her I said I hope she feels better!
God Bless You!

Answer by Denise H
omg im so sorry :(umm there is somthing u can give her. they silicone breast implants that are made for pple who have had there breasts removed from cancer.also tell her that she’s not the only woman who has felt the way she does. comfort her as much as u can :):):)

Answer by Moped Mama
sorry you have to deal with this hopefully this will send out a wake up call to others ” keep your yearly examines! ” and personal breast examine well what stage are you talking about is it in her lymph nodes? she might have trouble eatting and drinking depending on her therapy if she had therapy? i would buy her a gift pkg of herbal teas or flavored coffee etc, bath oils aroma therapy? comedy dvd might help , some woman don’t mind being flat chested it depends on her breast size it takes a long time to prepare for implants theres alot of factors to consider, so loose blouses would be nice robe and slippers , what about gourmet chocolate Ferraro roche, dove? i always like the Hershey’s miniatures? ?Ghirardelli make up a basket of comforting foods , you can always ask your teacher or neighbors and family or friends ? if you can have a fund raiser for your mom? or make assorted gift baskets stationary pens books games , chocolate basket? cheese and cracker basket, fruit basket? grocery basket? lots of times churches will have a thanksgiving dinner sent to homes? lots of things you can look into?…

Answer by Doctor J
Tell her you love her! It will mean the world to her. You can also spend time with her, sharing stories you remember about special times you and she have had together.

Best wishes and good luck.

Answer by Zoë
My mum had breast cancer as well but she only had one breast off so i know what your feeling like. Just try and be there for her, give her lots of compliments. I kept saying that a least it wasn’t her life which was taken. You will find that if your there for her that you will form a closer bond between each other. You may feel as though there is nothing that you can do and that she is pushing you away but being there for her is the main thing. It is a life changing event but try and express your feelings to someone not hold them inside of you, just talking to someone lifts a whole load off your shoulders. I hope that will help you 🙂