Would wearing lingerie too often cause it to become less of a turn on?

Weed Whacker: Would wearing lingerie too often cause it to become less of a turn on?
My boyfriend and I are moving in together in May. I have a decent collection of lingerie that I only wear on special occasions, but once we live together I could wear it around the house every day if I wanted to. However, I fear that if I wore it too often, it would become a common thing and then my boyfriend wouldn’t be as turned on by it.

Your thoughts?

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Answer by ♥♥ LOVE GURU ♥♥
I actually agree with you. Too much of any good thing and it just isn’t special anymore. Also, if you wear it around the house casually, you’re libel to wear-out the lingerie. Lingerie is expensive and delicate. You want to take care of it, and its good to save it for special occasions.

Consider the guys who are into porn, or into kinky sex. After awhile, the porn they were into isn’t enough, and they step-up to wilder stuff. The same is true for kinky sex. What was once kinky, isn’t that kinky after awhile, because it becomes the norm. What’s kinky about something you have all the time? Its often good not to overdo things sexually, so that you can still enjoy the simple things in life. There is such as a thing as desensitization.

When you become desensitized, your senses don’t register stimuli the way they used to. It takes greater stimuli, to achieve the same levels as before. Men are very visual and very tactile. That is why men like to see women in lingerie, because lingerie is both visual and tactile. Basically, you’re the gift, or the work-of-art, and lingerie is the wrapping paper or the frame. The goal isn’t to notice the pretty wrapping paper, or the frame. The goal is to draw attention to the real focal-point, which is you.

Simple is almost always better. Yes, lingerie is wonderful, but its not a good idea to overdo it. I totally agree with you, that you do not want it to become a common thing, and you definitely don’t want it to distract from you, or desensitize him. Its good to keep his senses heightened. He’ll be happy, just to have access to you. I really don’t think you’ll need that much, to turn him on, especially those first few months that you’re living together. Save the lingerie, for when things start to slow-down, so you can spice things up. Some guys aren’t even that into lingerie. He may like you out of it, more than he likes you in it. Keep it simple and just enjoy the basics.

However, you should remember, that lingerie isn’t just for the man. Lingerie is also for the woman. Women feel sexy, and feel good about themselves, when they wear lingerie. Lingerie can help a woman’s confidence and body-image. If you enjoy wearing it, and it turns you on to wear it, then by all means, wear it. Its likely, he wants to see you turned-on. He’ll be turned-on, whenever you are turned-on. He just wants to see you happy.

Best of luck in life and love. 🙂

Answer by Truck
If you wore the same thing, type or color over and over it could get boring. A man that gets bored with a women wearing lingerie must have something wrong with him. Don’t save the lingerie for special occasions only, let him know you can be sexy in lingerie all the time.