Why do guys say that you have to “do it” to make love?

Danny: Why do guys say that you have to “do it” to make love?
I’ve never had a girlfriend myself, and I can’t picture myself doing it. Not only that, but when only fantasize females from above the waist, not below it.

Why do guys always say you need to do it with girls to “make love”? I thought all that mattered in “making love” is telling a female how special they are to you, and telling them how you need them way more than they need you and telling them how you can’t live without them; and maybe a lot of hugs and a few kisses here and there.

As for reperduction in the future decades, do people really need to “do it”? Don’t doctors do that think where they extract sperm from the guy (I’m guessing with a niddle) and inject that into the female so you can have your children without ever having to “do it”?
Older? I’m 22 and still a full time student . . . yeah, I was one of the High School nerds.
@windowma…
Red Sox/Yankees games? I live in Chicago, I’m a Cubs Fan “Too bad, White Sox!”

Answers and Views:

Answer by wafflehouse
when u get older u will want to

Answer by echo girl
Do you have some phobia of sex? I mean, seriously? All joking aside. It sounds like you’d prefer if you never had to penetrate a wpman. Sure, hugging, kissing eash others body, touching each other…that can all be very sensual, and I suppose you can say you wermaking love, depending on how intimate you got, but it isn’t sex without penetration.

Answer by Kay Kay
your referring to artificial insemination, and there are no needles involved for the guy… you just masturbate into a cup.

also, alot of wat u said about making love is very sweet, but its healthy for relationships to have sexual outlets.

Answer by windowman
You sound like a clinician. Making love is having sex. Sexual intercourse. It is not conversation, caring, hugging, talking or discussing the Yankees/Red Sox game. At 22 you do need to mature and learn more about interpersonal relationships, emotional make-up of people, especially yourself and women, and stop acting like you have found the secret to happiness when you are so woefully uninformed.