jordin: My girlfriend can orgasm only by grinding on a hard corner of something ex: a table?
She can only orgasm by grinding on the edge/corner of something hard. Example: A table.
She cannot orgasm by intercourse. Or has not I should say. She said she gets about half way then it just stops during sex.
She can orgasm when I am inside her and when she is grinding on something.
Any tips? Any certain toys we can use?
It gets annoying having to run to the kitchen or something whenever she wants to get off.
Tips would be ever soo appreciated!
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Answer by Angel
The clitoris is a sensitive area with loads of nerves, when you treat it harshly with hard items it is desensitized and it becomes difficult to orgasm without the edge of a table.
You need to give the poor area a break, she should try using her fingers alone, and then gradually introduce a vibrator. Note: Do not use a vibrator all the time, because again you lose all the sensitivity in the region over time with continuous use.
She needs to stop using hard corners, she should use something hygienic like a vibrator, clean fingers, and you can try eating her out with lots of tongue, sucking and if you can multi-task finger her at the same time.
Answer by SmoothVelvet
Some women find it hard or impossible to reach orgasm through intercourse alone and indeed need clitoral stimulation to reach the big O. But there is nothing wrong in this and worrying about it or making an issue of it will only make the situation worse.
But if you both wanted to try omething a little different, there are lots of toys on the market that could help you no end if you both wanted to experiment, but using your or your girlfriends fingers with some quality lube to start is a great idea.
Yes bullet vibes, clitoral stimulators and even couples sex toys that are worn while you make love are available (eg We-Vibe ) at my site
One of the cheapest ways to help are cock rings that help stimulate the clit while you have sex.
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