What’s the difference between “making love” & “having sex”?

Stephanie: What’s the difference between “making love” & “having sex”?

Answers and Views:

Answer by Philip H
They are indeed the same…

Answer by Bryce
None we can do both

Answer by kristendlamanna
when you make love it is meaningful and it is because you truly love the person

just having sex is doing it with no meaning what so ever for the other person

Answer by mzmartinez92
making love is making a bond between two people stronger, having sex is for pleasure

Answer by aleX
When u make love it is with someone you love 🙂 but having sex is when u do it just to do it

Answer by JoJo
One involves emotion, the other is purely physical.

Answer by Gorgeous Kelly
same shiiiet. : )

Answer by Angie
making love is passionate sex with the person you love

sex is just for pleasure

Answer by thaigirl16
nothing. same thing. the term “making love” just sounds more sincere and meaningful, i guess. lol

Answer by JakeW
Females call it making love…
Males call it sex…
Depends on gullibility

Answer by DRAGON
making love = u love some one Having sex= u just having fun

Answer by ViiTaL iiMaG3
Making Love: You have sex with the person you like, and express your love through it.

Sex: You have sex to erase the sexual tension.

Answer by scr
making love is having passionate and loving sex. having sex is just plain fucking.

Answer by chantal c
personally i think making love is passionate and romantic and having sex is just a boom boom pow and there you go lol

Answer by ♥JENNYxBEAAR♥
There is no difference, they mean the same thing..

Answer by Allison
Having sex just means doing it to do it, not because of love, trust, or care. Making love is when it is passionate and meaningful. You will know the difference.

Answer by sunshine
making love = having sex with love involved

having sex = having sex

Answer by Our Precious Chloee
If you have feelings for or love someone then it’s making love, Sex involves no feelings.
But other than the emotional aspect there is no difference

Answer by Eric A
Well for example…

A couple who love each other will more likely “make love”

2 people who just met in a bar and are horny will “have sex”

Answer by packfan4life
making love is something chicks do having sex is something men call it

Answer by Josephine
The intimacy. The meaning behind it, I suppose. Rather, if, it has meaning behind it.
But there’s not a difference, really.

Answer by Forlorn Hope
no difference… though one tends to be long and slow and the other is hard and fast!!!

Answer by Dani B.
Most people say they’re the same thing.

Personally, I’ve always thought that making love would be more passionate and with someone you really care about while ‘sex’ is just having intercourse with someone. I could be wrong.

Answer by Care-Bear♥
Making Love —> U both love each other and want to be together

Sex –> BOOM BOOM POW and its totally meaningless.

Answer by Will
“making love” is completely different from “having sex”

now you’re asking why?

making love is something that is shared by both people and its something that can be felt… of course theres pleasure involved but theres something more to it that makes the sex so much better

if i had one word to associate “having sex” with it’d be lust

Answer by That guy
Love making is supposed to be romantic and special

Having sex aka fucking… is all about just getting the orgasm and then going on with the rest of your day.

Answer by davester1970
Physically they are really same thing. The difference is that married people call it making love. Single people just have sex.

Answer by greenonion08
making love involves love and having sex does not.

Answer by drDiy
Making love involves foreplay and hopefully quite a bit of it. Lovemaking should start before clothes are actually off. Hugs and kisses will ignite the passion and from there a warm sharing sensation will build. Maybe a small glass of wine with small (hot) talk and then off to the room. There a more deeply felt gut tickling anxiety of sorts will start filling both (lovers). Looking into each other’s eyes, they will remove oneanothers clothes slowly. Wetness and hardness will ensue.
Now the lying should begin. Making love isn’t an acrobatic behavior. In general the couple should remain in a somewhat normal or relaxed position while the introduction inside takes place.
Slow, long and deep motion will certainly light the fire and by not going into a (jackhammer) of motion will keep the ‘ love making ‘ on the level. Maybe when orgasm is nearing, a faster pace of long and deep will turn on the nuke juices.
Once the couple has experienced a loving explosion of juices, petting and light kissing should follow. There should be no hurry to run to the bathroom or do anything else except love each other. Having spent a decent amount of time, a shower may be in order.
Take it together and wash eachother all over. After drying off, slip into a warm dry bed and intertwine with little whispers and fall asleep.
Does this really work? Yes!
That in a simple way is Making Love.