Wazap: What is the best restaurant to break up with my girlfriend?
I am thinking of breaking up with my girlfriend, and she is kind of crazy. If I do it over the phone/email/text she would get pissed because her previous boyfriends did that and she screwed them over. So I want to try to make the break up as formal and nice as possible, and I want to go to a restaurant with a lot of quick escape routes in case she tries to slap me or something. Which is the best restaurant to break up with my girlfriend in?
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Answer by TidyHobo
Don’t do it in a restaurant. Too many people around, and she will be embarrassed. If you have to pick a public place, pick a park where you can get up and leave (or she can) and yet still not be too close to other people so that it is obvious to them what happens.
Remember, she will be more mad if you do it somewhere that would be uncomfortable for her. Give her an easy way out, and everyone will be better off.
Good luck…breaking up is never comfortable.
Answer by mr217shoestospareDon’t do it in a restaurant. If not for the simple fact it’s poor taste and classless, then do it for those around you that don’t want to be a part of your uncomfortable situation in the chance that she reacts badly there in front of everyone-and frankly who could blame her? A break up is a very private thing. Show you have class and show you still respect her by doing it somehow in public. The times I’ve broken up with a girl I tried to have my get-a-way planned so that it was over as soon as possible and I could leave as fast as possible-kind of like taking a band aid off-the faster, the better for all involved. I usually did the break up right at the girl’s house so I could drive off from there. In public BOTH you and her are trapped together until you can get her back home and be on your way. Come to think of it-if she’s a little nutty it could even be dangerous. Whatever way you rationalize things weather for her good, others good or your own-at least chose to do the break up in public. It’s the right thing to do.Answer by Lust for Lola
Avoid doing it at restaurants…from my experience, if a girl is upset at you….it doesn’t matter if there are other people around. I’ve gotten slapped, yelled at, stormed out of various restaurants where I broke up with someone. The best thing imo to do, is to take her for coffee, ask her to meet you there (so she has her own car to leave in), and have the talk with her in your car.
That way it’s quiet, just you two, no scene, and hopefully she won’t go nuts on you.
Answer by samPick a halfway decent place not a Burger or Buffalo wing type place, it must be quiet enough to hear each other but not so quiet the other tables can hear. And make sure you ask for a female waiter, table not booth, and close to bathroom if possible. Like Olive Garden, Mac Grill, not to expensive but not real cheap.
Restaurant is the PERFECT PLACE to break up cause you got more of a chance she won’t make a big scene and second by the time you and her leave she has had a chance to accept it and be calmer when you part ways. Screw the Class aspect you are dumping someone there is nothing nice about that or a classy way of doing it, DUMPED IS DUMPED. You are telling someone you would rather be on your own rather than with them how do you make that classy. Also, if she does start to act crazy you can always excuse yourself and you don’t have to come back.
Really though don’t leave the place till she is calm and has accepted the fact that it is over. Some women tend to do crazy things right after break ups ie., suicide, drink binges, or revenge sex with a stranger (which is dangerous for her). Plus make sure she gets not only home but inside the home safely don’t do the drop and run. See it all the way through and you are less likely to suffer retribution or create a nemesis.
I learned all this the hard way. . . . .
Answer by ஐJamie๑ஐget a backbone and break up with her in person in private. If my boyfriend broke up with me in a restaurant I’d be even more pissed
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