Some questions about breasts, bras and surgery?

Justanothergirl.: Some questions about breasts, bras and surgery?
First Question ~ I started puberty at age 11, and I am now 15, and my bra size is only 34A… My mum told me that I’m going to have to get used to it cause they will have stopped growing by now. Is this true? Am I really going to be this small forever?

Second Question ~ Since age 13 I have been wearing gel bras to boost my confidence, but my mum brought up yesterday, what am I going to do when I get in “a relationship” and the guy finds out that really my breasts aren’t as big as they appear… The sad thing is, I know for a fact that guys really like my “breasts”, as I often get… compliments… and I am realizing that I am in a bit of trouble. What should I do? My mum suggests that I just keep myself hidden until I leave for University, and then I just ditch the gel bra and accept that my boobs are small. This is an ok idea, but seriously, that wont be for another 3 years, will I really be able to “hide myself” for that long? And plus, the gel bras really do help me become a lot more confident, as I have suffered severe depression over the past few years, so the thought of losing that confidence when I go to Uni really bothers me.

Third Question ~ Unfortunately, I am actually considering surgery as soon as I leave school (3 years time…) so that I won’t have to wear the gel bras for my confidence etc. Would anyone recommend this? Would it be wrong to ask for it for my 18th birthday present, as I don’t have much money myself…

Please be nice.

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No, I’m 15.

Answers and Views:

Answer by DarkBlu37
1. No.
2. Your mum sounds like a bitch. A lot of guys really don’t mind smaller ones, and prefer them to overly large or fake ones. And they’ll understand that you wear a gel bra. Not a big deal at all. Maybe your mum is just trying to scare you out of having a relationship until you finish high school. Seriously, stick with the gel bras for as long as you like.
3. Think long and hard. Now is too soon to make the decision. You’re only 13, you’re still developing!

Answer by a_phantoms_rose
After you are 21 the fat cells in your body will give you some added fat in that area. At your age, your breasts are not as big as they will be. Not sure where your mom gets her info.

But not to worry, as you said, many guys like small breasts. And they will allow you to do much more in athletics. Look at you body and count yourself among the blessed. I have a friend who had to have her breast removed and have chemo therapy.

After you are 21 is plenty soon to even consider surgery, if ever. Surgery is risky. Nice small breasts are not.

Enjoy your life.

Answer by Emma Rawwwrr
Eh, trust me your breasts will grow, i think your mum is just trying to scare you outta the gel bras. wear them as much as you like, guys do prefer smaller breasts than massive D cup breasts.

Answer by darkshadow232
1. Not necessarily. I was really small up until junior year of high school [17 and started puberty when I was 14] before I actually got any boobs. I’m not much bigger, but I’m a 34 B now and I’m 20. So your boobs probably will grow a little bit.

2. I’m really sorry to hear that your mom isn’t being that supportive. I say wear the gel bra if that’s what you want. You’re only 15 and if it makes you happy and confident then go for it. Honestly, the right guy won’t care. I have small boobs and when bf saw them for the first time he really didn’t care all that much. If a guy cares that your boobs are small, then he’s not worth your time. But don’t wear it to get attention from guys, wear it because that’s what YOU want.

3. Surgery is kind of extreme to be thinking about right now, you’re only 15 and there’s no way a surgeon does work on teenagers unless it’s for medical purposes. I think you should really think about it because it has its downsides and upsides just like any medical procedure. The implants can leak or cause cancer. They have to be replaced eventually and the amount of scarring that can occur can be devastating. Do what you want, but don’t think about surgery for a few more years.

I know it’s hard because that seems to be what everyone fixates on nowadays, but honestly i would rather have small boobs than huge boobs. You have to make a decision that will make YOU happy and not anyone else.

Best of luck!