How do I tell my sister and mom that I am moving out and moving in with my boyfriend?

: How do I tell my sister and mom that I am moving out and moving in with my boyfriend?
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 1/2 years and decide to find a house or apartment and move in with each other. I don’t know how to tell my mom and sister. I have been living with my sister, and we have been arguing a lot lately and I am tired of her attitude. My sister has depended on me for everything.

Answers and Views:

Answer by Henry
u don’t tell them

Answer by Niki
Just tell her you need to be on your own to start your own life…

Answer by Nik
tell your family that you think it is time to start getting your life in order and you’ve been dating your boyfriend for a long time.

Answer by roobeh
i’m sorry to be harsh but just tell them. just say that you feel it’s the right thing to do. DON’T go back on your word though, it just makes life difficult.

Answer by BabeHeart
Just do it…”I’m moving in with ” Your sister will have to learn to be independent. It’ll be a great growth experience for her.

Answer by Shake-Zula
“pray” on it, really think about it. the words will come to you if you are absolutely sure you are going to do it.

Answer by Phyl D
Mom, sis, thanks for letting me live with you. I’m moving out on such and such date. I’ll be moving in with boyfriend and am really looking forward to being more independent and taking our relationship further.

Answer by Screwed Up Unicorn Nipples
I will just come out with it. Be like “mom, sister, I have become really into my relationship. (boy friends name) and i have become really close, and re ready to move in together. I am really excited, and also scared to move out, but i dont want you guys to think i left you. I care about you. And I want you to know that i will always love you guys, but i am ready to grow up.” Just say that. It shoudl work. then fill in any gaps….
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Answer by little_em
just say “mom im moving out to live with my boyfriend” if ur over 18 then ur old enough to do watever without her premission. if ur younger like 17 or 16 then just beg her she should soon give up 😀

Answer by odiy s
yea i think that your best chance is to tell them slowly. if you think that she might prevent you then just slowly move away and just tell your sister

Answer by Sarah
tell them you are ready to start a new chapter in your life. and that you need to be with him.

Answer by RuthAnn
If U think they will be too clinging just wait until U R ready to pack your last suitcase and go.
Tell them U love them. but it is time to start your own life.

Answer by turcoiseskyocean
The best way…be diplomatic but be honest and upfront. Maybe don’t go into your sister’s attitudes (that might set her off). But tell them that you are an adult…in a serious relationship and it’s time that you moved on with your life. Your sister will just have to learn to take care of herself (and she will learn…I promise).

Answer by Pollita
either tell them together or tell them separately. if together you think they will attack you then do it separate.

Answer by Lani
If you’re over 18, you don’t really have to tell them anything. It might be a bit easier for you to find a place, get ready to go, and then tell them. When I was 18 I really needed to leave home and be on my own, but my dad guilt tripped me into staying and helping out at home. I fell for that and canceled my plan to move out. Eventually I did get married and moved out. But I never had any experience living on my own, or even with a boyfriend, and I always wished I had had the guts to move out sooner.

Answer by lulu
depends how old you are. and you dont want to go about it the wrong way because what if you are gonna need your mom for something. i think you should just be honest and let then know.