sex………?

•○•TaTiLoVeSyOu•○•: sex………?
I know that i’m not the only girl in here who has been peer-pressured into having sex. So i just wanted 2 know…….guys…..why r u so interested in pressuring girls into having sex with you?!?!?!? It made me feel kinda uncomfortable….i just wanna know what’s goin thru guys’ minds when ur doin that?!?

Thnx
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Answers and Views:

Answer by lovesyourdiamond
that’s the way men are wired

Answer by matthew n
do not give in mke sure it is with some one you really like

Answer by i ♥ Food
where im from its equal, girls want it too

Answer by kim h
No one should be pressured into having sex!! Its not right whatsoever!

Answer by kidi_69
Men get off on getting a girl that is still a virgin and especially when the girl hesitates

Answer by Arnie the Hedgehog
Ummm…. how should I know? Not all guys do that, you know. Those who do just have urges for sex and will go to great lengths to get it. Don’t give in.

Answer by Carolyn R
I’ve also been pressured. I think girls need to take more responsibility. You need to be more assertive and say how you feel. If he’s going too far for your comfort, tell him to stop. If he doesn’t, physically make him stop. And if he doesn’t, then it’s rape.

Don’t let a man have that kind of power over you. It’s very hard to get your self-respect back.

That being said, it’s happened to me, too. This is just what I’ve learned from letting myself be used too many times. Some men are just dogs I guess. But you do need to make your feelings known.

Answer by AutumnMemoirs
guys who do that often implies that they want to own you which is kinda stupid logically. you decide on this one, its your body and you personally own it.

Answer by Ian
SOME guys will. Decent guys won’t. It is something I’d never do. It is just one of those things where if a guy (or girl) is as special as you think, they will care about your feelings and work with you.

Answer by BundyGil
What’s going through guy’s minds is sex. It’s a hormone thing. Guys are genetically programmed to have sex on the brain and spread their seed far and wide, especially just after puberty. At that age it’s an obsession.

Answer by socrdude83
omg! im a girl and i know exactly how you feel
these 2 hispancis wanted too.
I said hellz no.
tell whoever it is to get off your back and
SUCK IT!!!
it works!!!

Answer by Yoda
You are going to run into allot more losers and lowlife than you are the good guys ,,,,They far out number the good guys in fact ,,,,

Almost all guys let their glands do their thinking for them ,,,, They have no idea what the words commitment obligation loyalty or fidelity mean let alone what they entail ,,,

You have something they want and they are always very ready willing eagar and able to say or do or promise anything they have to in order to get what they are after and they don’t care who gets hurt in the process so long as they get it ,,,,

For these guys it’s always “I DO” until they don’t want to any more ,,,, After they’ve scored with you a few times or for a while they start losing interest in you ,,,, Their glands start kicking in again and they get tired of you and need to look for some one else that excites them more than you do ,,,, Then the first thing you know they start cheating on you or just leave altogether and you are left high and dry and used and abused and very deeply hurt and they could care less ,,,, Like I said earlier they don’t care who they hurt or how bad as long as they get what they are after ,,,,Almost all guys from like 14 or 15 years of age up to and including their 30’s or 40’s and even beyond are like this ,,,, Some of them are like this their whole life ,,,,

About the only way you can combat this and be able to filter out the good ones for the bad ones is to sit down with a piece of paper and write down standards and rules for yourself ,,,, Rule concerning what you will do and what you won’t do ,,,, Of what you will allow and what you won’t allow ,,,, You might have your mother help you with this ,,,, You’d not only be getting her input but also drawing on her experience too ,,,, I’ve never heard of a parent yet that would knowingly steer their child down a wrong path ,,,, Once it’s generally known among your friends and peers that you have these standards and rules for yourself you gain allot more respect from them ,,,, The losers and lowlifes that would only look at you as a toy to play with will melt away and go look for easier target else where ,,,, It’s only the good guys that are willing to abide by the rules you have for yourself ,,,,

Once you have these rules and standards in your head then stick to them ,,,, Not only now but for the rest of your life ,,,, Never let any guy make a fool of you ,,,, Never let anyone compromise your standards or your resolve ,,,, Always be mindful that guys are ready willing eager and able to say or do or promise you the world just to get what they want from you ,,,, Don’t let yourself be used ,,,,

Always stick to your guns ,,,, and maintain your resolve ,,,, If some guys make you uncomfortable to be around then get away from them and avoid them in the future ,,,, Trust your instincts ,,,,

You posted a good question involving a very serious issue ,,,, You get a star for it from me ,,,, Good luck and stay cool ,,,, Be smart and wise and stay focused ,,,,

Have fun but be safe and careful ,,,,

Yoda said so ,,,,