sex…….?

Danielle: sex…….?
Ok here’s how it goes.I’m 13 and my boyfriend is 15.I wanna have sex wid him but i dont know how to approach him.I’m a virgin but he isn’t.We’ve been together for some time now.When we first got together he told me that he wouldnt force me into having sex but i’ve fallen deeply for him.Please dont say your to young because i will report for not answering my question.Thanks in advance
aha i got ya’ll.I just wanted to see your thought on how young women as myself and sex how mad beings.We all need to stop all the young girls like myself to not have sex evan though your in love and think that that one true boy is gonan be wid you forever.

Answers and Views:

Answer by rameshp999
yu little kid

Answer by Henry_Tee
no easy way, just tell him that you’re ready, he will understand

Answer by Emily M
Im sorry, but you can”t report people for telling the truth. You are too young. and even him! at 15, THAT Is wayyy to young. That is the answer, so you can’t report me.

Answer by embracedbyluv
Woah.

Answer by cutie4life6094
Well you sound a little naive but if you want to do it with him its your body and you do what you want jus tell him your ready

Answer by pimp_gurlly
idk wat to say but bring up the subject. im almost 14 and my guys 17. yea we have the same issues.

Answer by Never fear, for I is here…….
I will just say be careful, and use precautions……please. Take some time and think about it first, you will always remember your first time with someone, is that the guy you want to remember forever since you have a lot of time left on this earth be sure by asking yourself that, ok?

Answer by kisses_me2u
no matter what its going to hurt but its going to hurt more for you cause your younger and smaller. Just wait cause you don’t want everyone to call you names if you lost it at 13. You may want to do it now but what if when your older and you want to date, whose going to date you when u lost it at 13. at least wait till ur like 16 or 17. Whats the rush

Answer by Flirty4ugurl
just tell him your ready … ps be sure he wears a condom

Answer by l4lnrotcbg4l
if ur ready make sure it is the setting that u want and the prefect moment. u will already be worried that is the first time but trust him that he knows what he is doin and that he loves u matter if u want to sleep with him or not. tell him that ur ready and he will undoubtedly make ur first time the most mindbogglingly experience that u have ever had. trust him and confide and he will find the right time

Answer by JP
Are you ready to get pregnant? Are you ready for an STD? Are you ready to feel used when he leaves you? And why isn’t he still a virgin? Because he sleeps around! Go ahead–report me. Please, don’t ruin your life! Wait for your wedding night, sweetie. Don’t have sex with some guy you are with for a couple of months. It isn’t worth it.

Answer by Inderia h
what is the rush for sex spend your time doing fun stuff you are just a teenager. if he can wait that is great just do not rush into it as you get older your get wiser and your mind sometime change so just hold off for a period of time

Answer by Sweetness 1
Danielle I am telling your mother.

Answer by egyptianla
listen I’m not telling you what you should do but I think you are way to young for this honey my bf sister got pregant at the age of 15 not say you will but make sure your ready for whatever happens in the long run. you can wait you have enough years to do it after you move out of your parents house

Answer by qtigrl5704
First off, I do think you are too young, but I also believe that it is your choice because it is your life. The best thing to do is sit down with your boyfriend and discuss everything you need to discuss. Make sure you are very safe (condoms, etc.) and make sure that he feels at least somewhat the same way as you do, before you do anything. It is true, you always remember your first time, and if you do choose to do it so young, it will only intensify your feelings, and it would be a shame to do this and then have him leave you. Also, I would sit down with yourself and really think to make sure you are emotionally ready to do this. If something did happen and you were to end up pregnant, would you be ready to handle the consequences of that? Just really, truly think about this before you do anything else, and if you can honestly say you are ready and can handle everything/anything that comes along, then go for it. Just remember, the first time hurts!

Answer by buxtonite
you are to young …. so go on report me !! , better than someone reporting your b/f for underage sex, sex with a minor , and a few more charges I bet as well…… so unless you want your b/f locked up for a long time I would keep my legs closed for a few more years yet and let your mind and body mature

Answer by 5$Foxlover
Well I am 14 turning 15 in September and there is no way I am having sex for years so sorry to say it but to me you sound to young. I mean 13. Are you even absolutely positively in love with this guy? I mean there is only one first time so I suggest you make sure that you are VERY sure that you want it with this guy.

Answer by elektra
ok so you would now i am 14 and i have been through it,ok!
well if you want to have sex with this guy thats your virginity.
but approaching him,no let him approach you ok.
but being 13 and wanting to have sex i am not trying to tell you not too do it but just think of what could happen maybe pregnancy!
hope this helps!

Answer by lonewolf3253
13, WHAT? 13 and want to have SEX. Grow up! You need to be the kid tou are.

Answer by Nico6688
Alright. Fine. I’ll answer without insulting your little girly pride. I’m not going to say anything about you not caring and treasuring your body or using it as endorsement. Just say, “Take me, I’m your toy to use and throw away.”

Answer by 25dtx
ok if you really feel that u should then id say go for it. but try to think of wat will happen after. i read this in a book that once you have gone all the way you cant go back to holding hands. any way. if you still feel its right call him up or text him saying. “he i think its time.”
p.s. once u have givin it to him you cant get it back. just be sure its wat u really want.
p.s.s ive been there too an id be happy to talk bout it if you want. my email is [email protected] k

Answer by jerry
Hunn let’s talk about this girl to girl. when I was 13 (I’m 16 now) me and my boyfriend were the same way. I’m not going to say don’t have sex, and I’m not saying do it eather. Sex is a comitment, if he already did it… what happened? And also look at the consequences. And look into it. Me and my boyfriend talk to each other to make sure we’re on the same page with the whole sex thing, so talk to your boyfriend about it, that’s IMPORTANT!! And what helped me was going to sexetc.org (I think that’s what it’s called) it talks about sex related topics for teens. And sweet heart make sure that you guys are doing it for love, not just for the sex. please!

Answer by shopingdiva2004
Good report my ass see if I care. Just say I want sex with you. But think of the consiquences. use common sense

Answer by Keith H
Hey OK well i am a 13 year old boy to
but i really don’t no how u should to up to him
i think u should just go up and tell him what u want to do
and if he is really in to u he will
well good luck i hope this is one of Ur best answers

Answer by sweetness7282001
Your way to young..! Does he Love you..?? your too young anyway..you don’t know the meaning of Love.

Answer by Anthony D
You are too young, wait another couple of years.

Report me, i don’t care

Answer by anubis01
not bad..

Answer by Alysha s
I would say your to young. But if Do have sex, think of the consequences. like getting STDs or getting pregnant. If you use a condom it may stop you from getting STDs but you still have a 3% Chance of getting pregnant. Condoms hold a 97% of not getting pregnant. What if you get pregnant. I know I am only 12 but my mom wants me to learn how to have safe sex. i also learned in school. It sounds like I know this better then you. If you ever watched the movie 15 and pregnant that could be you.(not the 15 part the other) Like when she gets pregnant and the boyfriend breaks up and cheats on her.

Do you want to get STDs? They are Sexaly transmitted dessies. And you can’t get rid of them ether. Or do you really want to get pregnant?

Take some time to decide!

P.S. I don’t have sex!

Answer by Arpita W
well……think about it twice. make sure u wont regret it later…

Answer by motocrossblondie
u scared me!!