Ladies, How do you find it easiest to reach orgasm through masturbation?

Cami T: Ladies, How do you find it easiest to reach orgasm through masturbation?
I’ve tried many different forms, looked at some articles online but I just can’t seem to get that great feeling. I’ve had oral performed and outside of reaching orgasm through that I seem to only orgasm using the massager in my shower. This isn’t exactly the simplest way to orgasm and no matter what I try through masturbation nothing works. Any suggestions?

Answers and Views:

Answer by flossymae
You can try something to increase your blood flow.Can make a huge difference.The more blood flow the greater sense of touch.

Answer by someone_somewhere
I know this may sound weird but…I use an electric toothbrush on my clit. It feels amazing just a few minutes of this and you’ll be orgasming in no time!

Plus it’s way cheaper than buying a vibrator. I recommend oral b pulsar.
Enjoy!

Answer by Alyssa N
Definitely go out and purchase a vibrator. It’s worth the money.

Just buy one of the little finger vibrators. They’re cheaper and they get the job done.

Answer by Janie S
I rub my clit … slowly, gathering speed. them move to the left at a very fast pace. I lay .. naked, in my room with legs wide open .

Answer by call me ty
open your legs really wide and stimulate your clitoris. you will feel a tingle in your body then a huge rush of pleasure…enjoy

Answer by Charlotte M
I think it’s best to stroke your clitoris (clit) in anyway. I have a few toys. It’s best in either one of those options. Stroking your clitoris up, down, sideways, or either way.

Answer by XfuneralXflowersX
I stroke my G spot in my vagina. Clitoral rubbing can hurt, so this is the easiest way for me. Hope my advice helps

Answer by Lins
i have a detachable showerhead at home, and what i do is i get down on the floor of the shower with the showerhead, and spread my legs really wide. one leg is usually up, leaning on the wall. this is the best way i know. at first, i had to put it on massage, but then i put it on jet. it’s so much more direct. so i put the jet on my clit. you don’t need to hold your breath. the orgasm is better if you breathe deeper. when the jet wasn’t enough for me after a while, i put the temp warmer, and sort of rocked on the floor. so the jet would be rubbing back and forth on my clit. this always gives me the best orgasm.

Answer by youweremystar
Use an electric toothbrush on your clit… it will work in no time. Another position that always works for me, is to get in doggy style position try using the toothbrush like that! Works wonders

Answer by Java Moose
u shuld use an electric tooth brush

or in a shower let the water fall in ur clit

Answer by cadenza62
Obviously, by the answers given, there is a wide variety of ways to masturbate! You’ll find your own way eventually.

I have two quick suggestions.
#1 The book, ‘Becoming Orgasmic’ although written mainly for women who have never had an orgasm, it has some great exercises to become more comfortable with yourself.

#2. Go out and spend $ 50 and get a Hitachi Magic Wand. It’s a ‘regular’ massager, but, you’ll thank me. Accept no substitute either. It MUST be the Hitachi. You can order it online at goodvibes.com or most online sex toy retailers.

Good luck.

~M