Ladies, how can I bring this up?

a a: Ladies, how can I bring this up?
I’m not sure if my gf was joking or not, but she put on some lingerie for me for the first time and she’s a smaller girl, very petite, and she said things like “I apologize for my small breasts” or “My butt’s not that full so I hope you’re ok with that.”

i dont know if she was just joking but it still bothers me. i love her for who she is not what she is. and i think she’s very beautiful the way she is. How can i bring this up and tell her that in a way that it wont be a big deal and she’ll get my message?

Answers and Views:

Answer by Valerie G
just tell her straight up that you love her the way she is and that you are with her because in your eyes shes perfect… it wont offend her at all =)

Answer by Eric H
She was looking for you to compliment her because she’s not satisfied with the way she looks 9 it’s a girl thing, they’re always unhappy about something with their bodies)

Make a big deal about it and tell her what you said here.

Answer by Kristina
The moment she apologizes for her body, stand up, take her into your arms, tell her that she is beautiful and you fell in love with her for the way she is and there is not one thing you would change. Then give a nice hot kiss and let her continue looking sexy! Just don’t randomly bring it up bc that will make her more insecure.

Answer by Rina Kae
well dont say you hate how she did that or anything just tell her that you love her for her and just the way she is

you dont have to just say it, you could just try to just show her somehow. dont stare are her breasts or her butt cause she’d probably think your expecting her to have big breasts and a huge butt plus it might make her feel uncomfortable. and if you stare are other girl’s breasts or butts then there she might think you expect her to be that way

Answer by Jg
I used to say those things too but after my partner would tell me he does not care and loves me either way I honestly believed him. It took me a while but after 3 years I had to believe him hahaha. But as I said earlier I used to say those things because I was insecure of myself. I wanted to be what he had in mind and I guess I was. Which is what is probably the same thing she is going through. Just be honest, she will believe you.

Answer by Tyler
The next time she mentions it or says something about it. Tell her that you love her just the way she is & there is no reason to apologize or feel bad about it & that you wouldn’t have it any other way. Or if you would lke, you can sit her down & casually bring it up & say Im not sure if it is bothering you but I want you to know I love you for you & your body is beautiful to me. Hope this helps some.

Answer by jes’ka;
Aww, just subtly compliment her on her looks. Tell her things like “you’re beautiful” and if the mood is right “I like your breasts” or whatever… if she brought it to your attention, she’ll likely appreciate the positive feedback.

And if she really is small, then she probably wasn’t joking, unless you told her before that you ~like~ small breasts, then she could be messing with you.

Hope I helped~ And you seem like an awesome BF for not holding those things against her (: