Is sexual compatibility really that important in a relationship?

Booger Men: Is sexual compatibility really that important in a relationship?
My girlfriend insists sex is important- i insist it isn’t. We wind up arguing about it. I’m content with it once a month, she wants it twice a week, which i think is sexual addiction,. Wanting it more than once a week is abnormal. How can I convince her that sex is not important, and that she is WRONG, and is being selfish?

Answers and Views:

Answer by Anthony P
Yes it is important. Its actually healthy to have sex 2 to 3 times a week.

Answer by lil me
one a month really! well idk do like some research on human sexual behavior

Answer by Don
the main thing is if you can satisfy your partner. when her and I nut together nothing else matters. woopiee

Answer by ConcernedCitizen
Sorry, but she isn’t wrong. It IS important, and once a week wouldn’t be enough for me either. You sound like a prude and you should consider yourself lucky she hasn’t dumped you.

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I just reread your details. Once a month? Are you serious? This sounds like a troll. If I were with a woman who didn’t want it more than once a month I’d dump her for sure.

Answer by Dushyant
sex is very important…i enjoying sex with my wife every day and night…

Answer by mehtani r
do it whenever, as many times as u like. no. is not that important

Answer by Me
Ummm this is a guy asking this question??? Hate to tell you but sex twice a week isn’t sexual addiction. Sexual addiction is someone who needs it several times a day everyday. Yes, sexual compatibility is VERY important in a relationship. That is one of the biggest reasons why people cheat because their significant other is not willing to give them sex. I wish you luck but there is nothing adnormal about her. You wanting sex only once a month seems to be more of the issue. Are you not that attracted to her?

Answer by klee
Thats funny. My boyfriend and i have been together 3 years and still have sex at least 5 times a week. Once a month! You are torturing your poor girlfriend. Im sorry, but if i were you I would be scared she would find someone else to have sex with. She is not wrong, you all are just too different. If you dont sit down and figure something out you all might not make it.

Answer by Neal G
Sexual compatibility is important in relationship. I hate to disagree with you but you are WRONG not your girlfriend and you are the one being selfish. Having sex twice a week is normal and healthy and is not classified as sexual addiction. Sexual addiction is when you have a compulsive sexual behavior and have no control of it.

Answer by Maine Boy (formerly NYBoy)
holy sh*t!!! you would think me and my grilfriend are freaks then–we have sex almost EVERY single time we see eachtother (3-4 times a week) and lately we'[ve had some type of sexual encounter twice a day–you can say we are very sexually compatible…looking back at my past girlfriends I wouldnt change what i have now for anything–sexual compatibility IS very important…

…btw, YOU are the one who is abnormal at only ONCE per month–it is natural for couples to have sex on avergae 2-3 times per week

on second thought this post is so stupid that it must be a troll

Answer by Mad Hatter
Yes, sexual compatibility is VERY important in a relationship. So is having sex before marriage. I’m not saying whore around, I’m just saying that if you plan to get married to someone you need to make sure you are happy in EVERY aspect of the relationship. Hence, kicking the tires before you buy. Sexual attraction is a big part of any relationship. Divorce is more likely to happen with people that waited because they are more prone to cheating due to not being satisfied by their partner.

Answer by Celia
Firstly, your girl friend is not wrong, nor even selfish. She want sex that much is because of endocrine. The attitude and need of sex varies from person to person. It is normal. So you should not blame her for this.
Secondly, sexual compatibility actually is quite important in a relationship, especially after getting married. It’s a natural need of human being, and also the most intimate action that both of you share. Sometimes, sexual incompatibility can lead to divorce.
In your situation, I think you had better communicate with your girl friend calmly. Expressing your opinion honestly instead of convincing her by your thoughts.