Quagmire: IS HE STALKING ME? HELP! HES 23 YEARS OLDER THAN ME!!?
Two months ago I made the biggest mistake of my life, I hooked up with a 43 year old and Im only 20! I broke up with him when he tried to convince me to let him get me pregnant and tried to take my phone away. He had a “no phone on” policy and had to read all my texts and wouldn’t let me go on facebook without him there. He even moved in with me since I lived in the next apartment. He went over to his apartment for a minute to grab something and I snuck out my door and left and even moved in with someone else and had them clear out my apartment and rented it out to someone else. We talked online since but never in person. For the first two weeks he wrote me love notes on Facebook and texted me and called me and spent every moment trying to get me back. Now he says he just wants to be friends but the moment I go on Facebook he messages me, he finds every excuse to talk to me, even if its about nothing. He comments every single status I write, to the point where I can’t even post one anymore. The worst part, he has a seperate photo album called “Sarah” (thats me) and it consists of several VERY close up pictures of my face at every angle. He won’t take it off even when I told him to. He admitted to me that he has my face as his computer background. If I try to delete him he will call, send me a letter in the mail, use a mutual friend’s acount, have his son write me, use his sons account. I don’t know what to do anymore I’m so embarrassed by hooking up with him and I just want him to disappear xP
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Answer by Penny A
you could get a restraining order on him…… if you’re willing to do something that desperate. if not, just delete him as a friend and ignore him if he calls you or tries to contact you
Cut al contact, even mutual friends, Explain to them why you’re deleting them or else just delete them.
Don’t read the mail, just tear it up when you know its from him and don’t reply to anything he sends or does. A few months of this and he will get the message, believe me.
If you really mean what you say about wanting to get away then you will do as I said.Answer by swift07
yes hes stalking and seems controlling
block him on FB and call the phone company to block his #
then i think u may want a restraing order against him
idk alot about this but i can tell when something is creepy :-
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