In marriage is “sex” always “making love” or after a while is it just “bumping uglies”

butnozzle: In marriage is “sex” always “making love” or after a while is it just “bumping uglies”
It can’t always be about looking in each other’s eyes and bonding, there has to be some “Wham, bam, thank you ma’am”
Is that true or am I off my rocker?

Answers and Views:

Answer by dolphyns2000
It’s true. You can’t have that meaningful, soul-searching sex all the time. Once in awhile you just need to break out and flat out screw.

Answer by Stephen H.
I agree. You have to have a good mix of just simple raw sex and also have your times of “making love.” For me the raw sex is a lot funner and more interesting, but there are times where you just have to keep the mood sensual and really keep it relaxed and smooth.

Answer by Marina
With my husband and I, even if it’s just a quickie it is still making love. Wham bam thank you ma’am is about sex only–when you’re married and you’re deeply in love and commited it becomes so much more than that. Even a quickie to satisfy a sexual impulse is still making love. It’s about feeling, not just the act.

Answer by A Large Mammal
Heck, is there ever making love?

Answer by oracleofohio
It’s a little of both. We’re not ugly enough to bump uglies. There are times for making love and times for sex.

Answer by Love Monkey
I call it “paying the troll”

To each his own, after all. Of course, I’m married, can you tell?

Answer by harold
Yes it’s true sometime it’s just wham bam.

Answer by cait
Sorry, my husband and I aren’t ugly enough to “bump uglies” ….what a trashy term

Answer by opal
I think that would depend on the couple. In my marriage we have a wide variety of both of those and some in between I have been married for 10 years. It does tend to go in spurts for a while we make love almost exclusively, and than some “wham bam thank you ma’am” and then some where in between for a while.

Answer by freesumpin
A New Yorker Cartoon shows a bored couple lays undressed and perspiring on their backs, eyes open.
One of them says to the other, “What’s the matter Honey, can’t you think about anybody else either?”
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Answer by Jackie
Every once in a while you have that emotional bonding sex, but most of the time, the sex is a mixture of it all-you have your “eye gazing” moments, and then all of a sudden-bam! It goes into a faster pace or positions change. At least that is how it is in my relationship. I kinda get it all with each session.. :o)