I “fall in love” too easily and too quickly?

DAISY =]: I “fall in love” too easily and too quickly?
I don’t really think I’m falling in love, I just get super crazy infatuated. For example, I was “in love” with this one guy, and I literally just got over him. But, I met this new guy a few days ago (I JUST met him, I hung out with him once. My best friend’s boyfriend introduced us) and I CAN NOT get him off my mind, it’s driving me crazy. Plus, I’m getting kind of depressed because I never got his number and I can’t ask my friend’s boyfriend because he has to move back to California on Monday and my friend is going to break up with him (she said a long distance relationship wont work). ANYWAY… my point is I’m really sick of “falling in love” so easily and quickly. How do I stop?
Also, is it true that a girl’s relationship with her father affects her relationship with all males?
If so, I consider myself to have no relationship with my dad. My parents are divorced and I don’t remember the last time I saw him. Could that be one reason for my problem?

Answers and Views:

Answer by New Orleans Fan 4 life!!!!!!!!!!
its not love your feeling, its just a ton of crushes…

Answer by Chukz(Lakers all day)
Well its not bad if you show a lot of affection, just try not to get to emotionally invested too early to not get yourself hurt.

Answer by Jessica
Stop being so superficial

Answer by ViVi
yes. Take it slow. You should really think what you want in a guy. And when he come, you’ll never regret or fall in love again.

Answer by -The Silly Little Atheist-
I have this problem too.
And you can’t stop, sorry girl.
Basically, you just try to consume your time with other
things, you can’t just quit a BAD habit like ours.
Just try to do other stuff, and be happy.

Answer by Emmy G
i had this same problem! but dont worry, there is a solution.

all you have to do is spend one day and think about this guy NON STOP. write a song about him, sing love songs, run around and scream his name!

then, the next day, dont think about him at all (by this time you’ll be sick of his name). take time off to watch a sad movie or listen to sad songs, eat chocolate and ice cream. treat this part of your healing like something died, because something actually did “your falling in love with him”

after a few days, you’ll feel much better, you might feel like you had a “mental breakup” with him.

good luck honey=)

Answer by metsfan7777
Fatal Attraction in-training here………

Answer by sana
i dont mean to sound harsh but love isnt a game. it takes a person some time to actually start loving someone. on the other hand i know what you mean. i like this guy for almost a whole year and i have given myself mental disability. it’s kinda of scary. everything that i do i think of him, wheater it be sleeping, eating, anything. anyway the point is…..what you feel for this guy can be deep just not be love. dont look for or wait for it and love will come to you and you wont even know it.

Answer by kellbellgirl
Well the key to this is that you “think” you are in love. You need to reconize the difference between a crush and true love. And you don’t know if your in love by just one chance meeting.

Answer by Kevin
It is a psychological phenomenon in which people fall in love with “falling in love”. This is understandable in our culture that bombards us with love songs, love novels, movie star romances. Also, when you first start to like someone, all those feel good chemicals start flowing freely in your brain. Literally, you become addicted to the initial stages of falling in love or infatuation. Unfortunately, these feelings NEVER last. Love endures, but infatuation, and the “high” of new love is temporary.

As far as you relationship with you father, well I wouldn’t give that more importance than it deserves. it really is bad Freudian psychology to want to blame all our troubles on our parents or lack there of. I would try to forgive him, let the baggage go, and work on learning how to find real sustainable love. Good luck.