How have your breasts helped shape you into the person you are today?

sasafras77: How have your breasts helped shape you into the person you are today?
I have small breasts that I’ve never really learned to learn to accept. I considered surgery, but after looking at before and after photos and reading stories about women who’ve regretted doing it I decided I’d stick with my ‘false advertisement’ padded push-up bras.

I think seeing the emphasis put on breasts (particularly the fake, airbrushed & surgically enhanced versions) has really had an overall negative affect on how I view my breasts and myself.

What are your thoughts?

Answers and Views:

Answer by Julia
I have small breasts too. If you are really self conscious, I’d say try taking the pill since that pushed me from a 36 B to a 36 C (over a few months). I’d say definetly dnt get surgury. there can be so many complications and if it breaks then thats even worse. Good luck!

Answer by Panda Salad
Always been small, never cared. Being on birth control made them much bigger, so now I actually fit in to my 34A bras. My boyfriend has always liked them and won’t stop.

I think that people who have low confidence will find something to be self-conscious about, no matter what. I have a friend who’s lean and athletic but thinks she’s a fatass who eats too much crap. She has a very healthy diet and actually doesn’t eat all that much for someone who walks everywhere (we’re New Yorkers- viva Brooklyn!) does karate three times a week and works out on her own almost every day. She has low confidence, so she feels awkward about that.

Guys like anything real that’s attached to a girl. Honestly, implants look gross- and my boyfriend shares that opinion.

You might want to start phasing in some shirts that flatter your figure more. In the wrong clothes we skinnies look like guys or like skeletons. In the right clothes we have sort of a pixie look going.