How do you start dating someone you don’t see everyday?

Escaping Heaven: How do you start dating someone you don’t see everyday?
I would like to start dating a girl but I have run into a few issues. Its very hit and miss whether or not i see her. If i do i definitely talk to her. However most of the time it’s in the bar when were both pretty wasted. I don’t want to be a creep and take advantage of this. I have her on facebook and her number, however we live in small town (3000 people) where there’s essential nothing to do. So dates off (not very private, run into people you know). Any ideas?

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Answer by Angela A20
ok go to the bar and don’t get wasted….even if she is wasted start talking to her and be super nice…if she has trouble getting home and stuff help her out and don’t take advantage of her because she will admire the fact that you care about her enough to make sure that she get’s home safely. you can also ask her to chill when you guys are wasted or get to the bar early and start talking to her before she get’s wasted (that way she will remember what you said) or you can always ask her if she is going out this weekand (thhrough fb message)
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Answer by SarahLee
take her to dinner and a movie, or out in a public park for a picnic

Answer by therick63
Yeah!
Grow up!

Answer by Nicole C
This is my suggestion. Call her up, and invite her over.
This way your away from everyone else in the town. Or maybe you could take her to the next town over and have dinner at a nice restraunt there.

Answer by Inforesource
How do you know she likes you? And there has to be at least something to do. Maybe movies? That’s still private even if you know a lot of people. Or you could drive out to the nearest biggest city. Then you wont know anyone.

Answer by minnie mouse
those kind of relationships are tough to start with. so make sure you really want to date her before you ask her out. (at least this is in the case that you won’t be able to see her anyway).. but if you can then take her out of town to some water park or theme park. That way once you two get more comfortable around each other it will be easier to be seen in public.