How do u know if a guy is “making love” to you or just having emotionless sex w/ u?

missprissy1004: How do u know if a guy is “making love” to you or just having emotionless sex w/ u?

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Answer by Zooya
Trust me, I can feel the difference!

Answer by fajita
buy the noises he makes and his acting performance.

Answer by krissym_15
if he calls you the next day… calling him doesn’t count…

Answer by Arthur
Hopefully, you get to know him well enough in advance first.

Answer by reaganontherock
he’s just having sex with you. Get over yourself already……

Answer by Darin C
my personal way of expressing is by kissing during the “act”. kissing is very personal. if it’s just sex, it’s usually “wham bam thank you ma’am”. no cuddling.

Answer by Roger
don’t have sex with him unless you are confident in advance that he is not just in it for the emotionless sex.

Answer by dreamer_1788
If YOU feel a connection, then you can be almost certain it’s for real. The way you can tell is if he almost goes out of his way to make sure you’re enjoying yourself and that you feel good. It could be anything from looking deep into your eyes to waiting for you to orgasm. Also, if he sticks around to lie with you for a little bit, that’s a good sign.

Answer by Master Shake
if he gets up as soon as he’s finished and says he has to go, it was just sex. If he asks you to get him a beer first, he wants to spend quality time with you while he drinks it.. thats love.

HEY! screw you people. This answer was funny.. I don’t care who you are.

Answer by Geedebb
You can’t ever be sure unless you start reading minds .

Answer by true2u
when he’s taking his time with you and your body. that means he admiring what he has in front of him. and when hes sensitive to your needs, like caring if your uncomfortable, and doing what makes you feel good.

Answer by forty something
If he is making love to you, he will say your name softly and kiss your neck. He will also look you deeply in the eyes. If it’s emotionless sex, he will get on and get the job done and that will be that. If it’s making love….I think you will know it without a doubt. If you have to ask, it’s probably just emotionless sex. Sorry.

Answer by wusabi12
You will know cause you feel it in your heart not just in your body. I will be like your one

Answer by Angry Gay Man
So you’ve had sex with a guy, and you don’t know him well enough to determine if he cares about you or not? If you can’t tell whether or not he’s making love to you, he’s probably not making love to you.

And if it’s important to you that a guy care for you, then you might want to hold off on jumping in the sack next time. Hey, I’m not judging you. I’m just telling you what seems obvious and practical to me.

Better luck next time.

Answer by Dan J
The difference between making love and just having sex is the attention that each partner gives to the other. Wham, Bam, Thank You Ma’am is not making love…

Making love to another doesn’t start in the bedroom.. It starts from the first time that you see each other that day… It is a build up of touches, emotions, eye contact, things said and things implied. Making love exists in the mind not in the body…

Sex is great (even bad sex) but nothing is better than making love!

Answer by DC
Well, being a guy, I Totally agree with Dan J.
The whole build up is important, the way that he touches you, the way that he kisses you and he will take his time with you to make you feel special and wanted – that is making love, you will just feel it within yourself and that is how you will know.

Otherwise the guy will just be out to “get his” and then he will be off
that is emotionless…

Answer by wildpalomino
Well that depend on how long he lasts? is he only thinking of his own pleasure?do u get to orgasm?Is he taking the time to explore your body or does he just jump on and go for it? Is there kissing and smoching involved?If he is not doing any of these then it is just sex.