How do I transfer masturbation orgasm to boyfriend?

Kristi: How do I transfer masturbation orgasm to boyfriend?
I can easily have an orgasm by running warm water “down there” (in my bathtub) but when I try to have an orgasm with my boyfriend I just don’t feel it. I know I’m attracted to him because I get those kinds of feelings around him but it just doesn’t have the same effect the bathtub has. He’s getting frustrated. How do I have an orgasm with my boyfriend?

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Answer by Smackee
what? lol!

Answer by MTHTL
Why are all of the perviest questions coming from users with very few points…

Answer by Ross James
Since you haven’t taken the trouble to tell us what you have tried, thousands of possibilities, there is no way we can make a recommendation that would help.

Answer by mylifewithoutyou
i had this at the start of my relationship with my boyfriend.
as bad as it might seem, you might have to guide his hand, and keep your hand on his.
make him suck your boobs or kiss your neck, or junk that turns you on.
or, of course, you could take a bath together. 😉

Answer by ThePerson
Kristi, i’m sorry everyone else here is being an asshole.
Just try to explain to him what you like and have him do that, if it’s the water then go for that. If it’s something else then i’m sure he’d be glad to do it for you.

Answer by Kes
Masturbation and having intercourse is totally a different thing when getting an orgasm. Often it’s easy to do it to yourself but most women don’t actually orgasm when having intercourse with their partner, it’s a common and natural thing. Often the couple have got to find others ways of achieving it for the girl, through toys and foreplay but often most women can achieve it with oral sex more.

Answer by bd
There could be many reasons but I think you are not relaxed enough. You said. “when I try to have an orgasm with my boyfriend I just don’t feel it”. Your perception is wrong bc you are not supposed to try to feel it, your boyfriend is supposed to know how to get you there. That means you guys shouldn’t be sexually intimate, right now. If you are determined to stay intimate with him, have him masturbate you before sex.

Answer by jing
It’s very hard to actually have orgasms through intercourse. Only few (lucky) women orgasm during sex. Tell him what pleases you. If you like to be touched then tell him. Idk but it can be frustrating to tell your bf that you only orgasm by running warm water down there. I really can’t give some tips as i have only orgasm once with my husband. I guess it’s best to experiment on what position is best.

Answer by James
Here is some article that might help you Secret Orgasm Tips