How do I make my lover feel more comfortable during sex?

Yer boh: How do I make my lover feel more comfortable during sex?
My lover is fairly inexperienced and seems very nervous during love making. I am more accustomed to experienced lovers who need little or no guidance. What can I do to help him feel more comfortable and confident? Also, how do I instruct him in a sensitive way that will not make him feel self conscious about his inexperience?

Answers and Views:

Answer by Banana
Tell him that he’s great in bed.

Answer by Shannon
Give Head..it always helps

Answer by queery
Use Pavlovian conditioning to reinforce pleasurable behaviour by moaning appreciatively or doling out small praises (oh, that feels good) whenever he does something that feels nice. In this way, no one’s feelings are hurt, and he learns that he does do some things right, which makes him feel more confident. If he’s really bad in some area, gently tell him what you’d like (ie. honey, could you please watch your teeth when you blow me?) but be sure to also compliment him both before and after the request so as to not hurt his feelings.

Answer by Eric B
Go slow and gentle, make sure he feels comfortable, let him know that his inexperience is not something to be ashamed of, use his inexperience as an excuse to have sex more (gotta practice somehow). Make sure he knows beforehand that he’s not being scolded, but corrected, that what you are saying is being said to make the experience more enjoyable for both of you.

Answer by watertownmongo
Well I’ll use my first bi experiences as a guide. I know when I first tried it I was nervous as hell and he was way more experienced, but he went slow with me. Not expecting anything really and not pressuring me into anything. We tried a little more each time we met and by trying a little more each time it made me wanting more

Answer by EmmaAtTheDisco
Say he has a nice face.