Help!! I have small boobs!!?

astrid: Help!! I have small boobs!!?
Now that I have your attention…
How can I learn to not only except the size, but love them? The size doesn’t bother me much and my boyfriend loves them including everything else about me 😛 But how can I not help feel inadequate at times when all you see on tv are these women with their nice voluptuous breasts hanging out? Especially when we live in a society that is fixated on women’s breasts?

I know that recently Kiera Knightly stood up to not having her breast digitally enhanced, and that did make me happy, but come on if I looked that gorgeous and had and acting talent I too would find it a bit easier to except the size of my breast, lol. Plus, the reality is that despite her stand, we still live in a society that idealizes large breast.

I’m just tired of not feeling like a true women because I have a small cup size and am 20 but still get confused for a 12 year old. I don’t want to get implants because I think I should learn to appreciate what God gave me, and because one day I might have a little girl of my own who has small breasts. And if she ever feels bad about them I don’t want to teach her ,”hey just wait until you are old enough to get breast implants.” I want to teach her to learn to love and live with the body she was given.

So please, any advice or feedback. AND AGAIN if you are just going to tell me to get implants please don’t waist your time.

Answers and Views:

Answer by barbiexboness
I wish I had smaller breast.
Really I don’t see why women or men for that matter find larger ones so great.
Just think that women with naturally large breast idolize you for having smaller ones. :]

Answer by izzy_the_b
i heard there were muscles you could work to make your boobs bigger

Answer by uhmanduh44
Large breast are gross anyways. Try using a push up bra, or a water bra, that might boost your confidence a little bit. I agree with the no implants. As long as your boyfriend loves you for who you are, thats all that matters 🙂

Answer by daniGlamoure
You are lucky.
I wish I had small boobs.
I would be able to wear v-neck tshirts.
And my dresses wouldn’t tear around the boob area.

You won’t get boobily streach [sp?] marks when you’re older.
Gravity is YOUR friend.

Anyways, boobs are nothing to WANT.
Big blobs of fat.
Yum.

Answer by Catalyste
Hey I have big boobs and I still have to learn how to like what God gave me because I don’t like the stares I get.

I feel you pain, seriously.

As they say “beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” I say that because even though you view Kiera Knightly as gorgeous, I view her as an average actress with angular features. Sorry.

But I am glad that women like her and Gwen Stefani don’t resort to getting breast implants. I think this whole fixation on women’s breasts makes it hard for people like you and I because of these silly expectations. They expect all women to look the ideal part where we all have average looking bust sizes. You can’t help being small, and I can’t help being big and society stares at us because of it.

So you know what I say to that? GO PARTY! Go celebrate life and let the world know that you love your looks and they can go screw themselves and their opinions. 🙂

Answer by Layne
Do not get implants. The media does not reflect what people really feel, it manipulates and plays on people’s insecurities to make $ $ $ . I think Pam Anderson looked better when she got hers removed. Look at Kate Hudson, she has a small chest and is one of the most attractive women in Hollywood. Your boyfriend loves you the way you are and you should too. Fake boobs, look just that, fake. I think if you ask the average guy he wants the real thing and only a handful 🙂 being healthy and happy with you is more attractive than anything you can do. Don’t be so critical of yourself.