How should I explain better sex to my fiancé?

Wondering: How do I explain better sex to my fiancé?
When we have sex he just goes in and out, not the full “make love” motion. Every now and then he does it right but he doesn’t understand how it’s different. As a female I don’t know how to explain to him what to do. How do I put in words how he should move when having sex? He’s dated floozies and I guess no one else ever corrected him.

Answers and Views:

Answer by Michelle
Don’t tell him. Show him. Some men will get defensive if you start saying things like ” you do that wrong” or ” not that way”. It will Hirt his ego. Guys do not have ESP so sometimes we have to show them what and how we like it. He will listen because he loves you and cares about you. Next time just say stuff like ” I really like when you do this and how you do that.”. ” it really turns me on or makes me o. So we should try it”. A little guiding is all he needs!

Answer by A B
It isn’t clear if he is trying to do it right or if he doesn’t know he’s doing it wrong.

One thing I had to learn for myself about the mechanics of sex is not to use your back to thrust into a woman. Instead, thrust with the glutes and pull back with the thighs. That might be something he can try if he’s not doing it already.

Another thing I learned was that I could bend a woman’s legs back and just rail her in a way that felt good to me without worrying too much about her pleasure. Not only was this an OK thing to do, but it turned out that my partner would get more pleasure out of it as well. Don’t know if this is what he does or not, but it’s worth a shot.

Finally if all else fails, you can try different positions. There may be a better angle for him to enter you that will be best for both of you. Good luck!

Answer by Mike
Have a threesome. Threesomes help every relationship problem.