dance ???!!!?

nydia g: dance ???!!!?
i’ve always had a passion for dancing but im 14 right now
i joined dance when i was 8 and only stayed for 4 months and then when i was 12 i joined ballet but i quit in 2 months
all the girls there in the studio dont talk to me
they are kind of the popular girls a school and i dont think they like me
i really want to join again but idk wat to do!!??

Answers and Views:

Answer by butterfly
join again your there to dance and ways!! if you like it enough i should not matter if the girls talk. i mean we are not allowed to talk during class at my studio.

Answer by Anum K
Dont let others put you down, or make u what what u love ( dance) , follow ur passion, and dance!
All throughout your life there will be girls who wont be nice to you, just hold on tight and i can a sure you that it will get better.
By quiting, ur just letting them get what they want, which is to make u stop dancing.
Every girl goes through this! Good luck 🙂

Answer by Annonymous <3
if you want to join then join. don’t not do something you want to just because of popularity issues. hate to break it to you but there will always be people who don’t like you and there’s nothing you can do about it. it has nothing to do with you, it’s just the way people are. who knows maybe you’ll even make friends with these girls. i’d say just do it =)

Answer by SheaA
as everyone else said, it doesn’t matter what everyone else thinks, just do what you love. but, if you are really worried about it, your studio might have adult classes(or another studio int he area). check ’em out. i take one of those because i didn’t want to be taking ballet with eight year olds 🙂

Answer by yale dreamer
what does it matter if the girls dont like you you arent there to be liked if dance is your passion go for it i regret waiting as long as i did to start up so start soon or go to a different studio

Answer by Lauren
If you want to take up dancing again, go for it! Don’t let one group of girls stop you. If you get to know them, you will probably see that they are at least a little nice. Maybe you could join it with a close friend who is also interested in dance. Then you would feel more comfortable about joining again with someone else by your side!

Answer by Samm =]
why dont you try going to a different dance studio and not the same one you have been going to. If that isn’t a option then dont let them bring you down. Who cares if they are popular and such you shouldn’t let it bother you. Well good luck =]]

Answer by ems
join, who cares if they don’t talk to you
just show them you dont care and be 1000 times better at dance than they are by concentrating on teqnique

Answer by .x.Chloe.x.
does it really matter what they think? but if all else fails go somewhere else and kiss there *ss in competitions!

Answer by Mélanie C
That arrived to me too. I enter in a dance troup at 12 years old and girl seems to be the most popular and all that and i jut get out for that and now I am 17 and I regret it a lot.

If you want to go so go. It’s better to do what you want and accept that other are stupid than don’t do it ans have regrets…

Have regrets for something you did is much more better than have regrets for something you didn’t do.

Answer by Morgandy
In dance, you are always going to have people who are catty. Also, especially among the students who have been there for a while, there is a tendency to hold back and see how a new student does before welcoming them into the fold. In some ways, it’s like you have to earn your place in the studio.

The question you need to ask yourself is, are you there to dance, or are you there to make friends? If you’re there primarily to dance, then just relax and enjoy dancing. If you work hard, it’s highly likely that they will open up to you after some time.

If you’re there to socialize, then you may be better off seeking another activity.