How do you “hurt” a cancer male/female? What makes them angry?

: How do you “hurt” a cancer male/female? What makes them angry?
What does that mean exactly? Because everyone gets “hurt” by things, but what “hurts” a cancer male/female? What gets their blood boiling? What makes them tick? What makes them turn from sweet, caring, protective to the complete opposite? Anyone have any dating experiences or relationship experiences with a Cancer? Do they get easily frustrated when you don’t give them your full attention? Also is Moon in Cancer the best placement?

Answers and Views:

Answer by BB
attack their family members and you will have a mean Cancer ready to strangle you.
I’m serious.

My aunt is a Cancer /Sun (with some Leo in her) and she is like the “God Mother/matriarch” in our family. She will never let anyone say anything negative about her loved ones. She treats us (her nephews) as her own children. And when she gets mean, she is a tigress.

Answer by BuddyLove
Im an Aries man that dated a Cancer female for 3 years…and with me being an Aries we are not Compatible with Cancers AT ALL! The things that make her mad was when I looked at others women, Im not sensitive at all so some of my words was very straightforward which always hurt her..Cancer women are very possesive people and even when we broke up..just seeing me with a new woman pissed her off..its like once you date a cancer you’re always theirs inside their little minds even if you have broken off the relationship…They say cancers live in the past and hold on to everything from the past this is so true!! but i would’nt advise anyone to hurt a Cancer because u will pay hell..trust me I know this..they are sweet people but dont piss them off.

Answer by Aria Miller
Tell him that you are going to surprise him, blindfold him, take him up to an ally, punch him in the balls and grab his wallet and run, but before that you might want to get a baseball bat and hit him in the head so he wont remember all that.

That should make him REAL angry.

Answer by Sandra
cancers are very sensitive say one little thing it pisses them off.
u could say they are a b*tch or you could just be playing around & they get mad look at another person talk about another person they are very jealous but hella jealous.
if u cheat & talk sh*t but hurt full back stab u will deeply wound the cancer & will never get the trust back.
yes they do they want to be shown that you notice them.
no i havent had a relationship with a cancer.
idk.

Answer by Amethyst33
Cancers “lose it” when they feel that their loved one is leaving them. The loss of a loved one is the greatest fear of Cancers. So the drama runs high when you are trying to break up with a Cancer that isn’t wanting the relationship to end. That can cause some big-time drama! They are also very jealous when you leave their sight and they don’t know EXACTLY what you are doing. Even if you aren’t doing anything wrong, when you get home, you will be interrogated as if you did do something wrong, like have an affair for example. You can NEVER get it through their thick skulls that you only love them and only want to be with them. They are very possessive and want to know every word fo every conversation that you have with someone of the oppsite sex, even if it is the guy that carries out your groceries! I would say LOL, but it is so not funny to be accused of cheating with a teenager that has the job of carrying groceries to your car!

And as far as them getting easily frustrated when you don’t give them your full attention, it is actually the opposite that is true. They just want to be with you 24-7 and have no idea what the meaning of needing some “space” actually means. This was a huge issue with my Cancer mates. I always said that I felt like I had a statue beside me 24-7 as they just won’t leave you alone for a minute! And during that minute they are sure that you ran to the neighbors and had sex with them! This is true! They are so adamant about your relationships with others. Even women neighbors!

But the “activity in the bedroom” is awesome. At least that was my experience. But I feel that the reason they are so distrustful of their mates is because they have been “cheaters” and therefore they believe that you are going to be a “cheater” too. I know one Cancer mate cheated on me and I highly believe that the other one did too. They are “projecting” their fear that you are going to cheat on them because they have already cheated on you! All signs cheat. But I was monogamous to both my Cancer mates. But I don’t think either one of them actually believed it because of their “wandering eyes.”

And Moon in Cancer is the strongest placement for the moon. The moon represents our emotions, which Cancer gets the trophy on having the strongest emotions of the zodiac. Well, Scorpio moon is a close second. Positively, Cancer Moons are nurturing, caring, and compassionate. Negatively, they are possessive, clingy, and needy.

Hope this is helpful. Good luck and bless you.

Answer by yadakcoh
When I trust somebody and then they prove they’re disloyal….yeah that pretty much aggravates me to the core.
-cancer

Answer by Valentin
Say something about their family or friends
Tease them too much
Make jokes about them
Talk about them behind their back
Tell a secret they tol you to everyone

Answer by The finest
Just look at their BF/GF, especially the Cancer girls you don’t even have to talk or stare at their man to make them angry. It can also be any man who they fancy, not exactly theirs.

Answer by uli
To be honest you just never know when you hurt them because they literally get hurt by the slightest hard tone or mean face specially when you mean a lot to them. If you act insensitive towards them then they take it to heart and instead of confronting you they disappear to either heal or completely cut you out from their lives because they’re afraid of getting hurt. Out of all the signs Cancers have the hardest time letting go and moving on once they get emotionally hurt. You literally need to be careful with what you say or do (they literally wear their hearts in their sleeve). One more thing never ever hurt a family member because they will defend them with their lives (they’re extremely protective over friends and family) they don’t get the nickname as mothers of the zodiac (regardless of gender) for nothing lol.